Adopting my step daughter

[LdiJ]

If OP decides that he is serious about adoption, then his first step would be to get a consult with an adoption attorney in his area. Adoption is not a DYI project.

 

[greivingspouse]

OP says: I have a step daughter that is three and the biological father has never been in the picture what do I need to do to adopt her ?

OP says:paternity was never legaly established we have tried to contact him on this matter and have had no responce what so ever

It appears to me that this IS the last resort. Besides, "Biodad" may not be Biodad, what then?