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HELLO AND I APPRECIATE YOUR HELP WITH MY QUESTIONS. I HAVE A 9 YEAR OLD STEPSON THAT HAS LIVED WITH ME SINCE HE WAS 9 MONTHS OLD. HIS MOTHER AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER YHIS WHOLE TIME. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR THE PAST 4 YEARS. HIS NATURAL FATHER HAS NOT SEEN HIM SINCE HE WAS 3 MONTHS OLD. SHE HAS BEEN TO COURT A COUPLE OF TIMES ORDERED BY THE COURTS BECAUSE OF HIM NOT PAYING ANY CHILD SUPPORT. THE LAST TIME THEYWENT TO COURT SHE ASKED HIM IF I COULD HAVE FULL CHILD SUPPORT "ADOPT". HE SAID HE DID NOT CARE AT ALL AND TO GO AHEAD. HOW DO MY WIFE AND I GET MYSELF TO BE CUSTODIAL PARENT AND CHANGE OUR SON'S LAST NAME. I HAVE NO IDEA AND STRUGGLING TO PUT HIM ON INSURANCE AND OTHER STUFF. PLEASE HELP.
HELLO AND I APPRECIATE YOUR HELP WITH MY QUESTIONS. I HAVE A 9 YEAR OLD STEPSON THAT HAS LIVED WITH ME SINCE HE WAS 9 MONTHS OLD. HIS MOTHER AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER YHIS WHOLE TIME. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR THE PAST 4 YEARS. HIS NATURAL FATHER HAS NOT SEEN HIM SINCE HE WAS 3 MONTHS OLD. SHE HAS BEEN TO COURT A COUPLE OF TIMES ORDERED BY THE COURTS BECAUSE OF HIM NOT PAYING ANY CHILD SUPPORT. THE LAST TIME THEYWENT TO COURT SHE ASKED HIM IF I COULD HAVE FULL CHILD SUPPORT "ADOPT". HE SAID HE DID NOT CARE AT ALL AND TO GO AHEAD. HOW DO MY WIFE AND I GET MYSELF TO BE CUSTODIAL PARENT AND CHANGE OUR SON'S LAST NAME. I HAVE NO IDEA AND STRUGGLING TO PUT HIM ON INSURANCE AND OTHER STUFF. PLEASE HELP.