TN. I'm married 10 years to this guy. He went out and had a kid with someone else . I accepted the child as my own and have raised him since age one and he's 9 years old now . I'm fighting to get a divorce from this man but he's just not willing to give me and still lives with me and ambushed me in every possible way.. I'm stuck. He says he will give me mutual adoption rights and is holding it over me to make me do unimaginable things . I'm taking it for te sake of this child as I love him as my own. Our final hearing date is next month. Once it's done I will get him arrested for domestic violence as its unbearable. Can he then revoke my adoption rights?