| according to Oregon Law.. You only have one year to wait for abandonment. GO to your states statutes and look up "child rights". Your state will have documented what they consider abandonment.
Now after 5 years of no cards, contact, support; you will not need his signature. Set the court date, serve him the papers and explain to him he will be off the hook for an financial responsibility if he does not appear. Other wise he will have to take the stand and explain why the adoption needs his consent and where and why he has been a no show for so many years. Usually the judge blasts the person for their irresponsibility and humiliates them in fornt of whom ever is present. So unless they are gluttens for punishment they 99% of the time stay way away form teh court room.
If you can't find him post a notice of the adoption in a newspaper near him then await for a response. But you did try to inform said "parent" of the adoption. |