Indiana Filer
Senior Member
Then ask your priest, rabbi, minister (insert any other title for clergy) perform a ceremony in the church some afternoon so that you can be married (in your family's view) in the eyes of god. You could wear a nice skirt and sweater that you already own, your man could be in khakis or slacks that he already owns. Your costs would be for the license and a small stipend for the clergy.I want a marriage...let me explain why I won't do it at the court. I did that with my ex and my family is very religious. There fore I went almost a year without half of my family talking to me because of it...I will not go thru that one again. I dont care about the party, I care about the ceremony...or have you never been to a wedding? The ceremony is before the party...remember? And with my family it will be a religious ceremony.