grumpymama
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia
My ex-husband is the biological father of my 14 year old daughter. He has not seen her since she was 2 years old. I attempted to have her maintain a relationship with his family and he has cut everyone off from her. Tells his family that she's not his, contested paternity when child support was requested, etc.
My husband has been in her life since she was 5 years old. He is Daddy to her. SHE wants to be adopted and we would like that too, but she is pressing the matter. I have attempted before but he refuses to sign the paperwork to release his rights to him. In fact, it was his idea originally. Now he doesn't want anything to do with her but doesn't want my husband to have her.
What can I do? My daughter at the very least has been pushing for a name change (change it to my husband name). What can I do? Can she petition the court herself? She is chronically ill and I'm worried that the stress of court might not be in her best interest but the stress over not getting something she so wants and feels that she needs could also be just as bad for her.
My ex-husband is the biological father of my 14 year old daughter. He has not seen her since she was 2 years old. I attempted to have her maintain a relationship with his family and he has cut everyone off from her. Tells his family that she's not his, contested paternity when child support was requested, etc.
My husband has been in her life since she was 5 years old. He is Daddy to her. SHE wants to be adopted and we would like that too, but she is pressing the matter. I have attempted before but he refuses to sign the paperwork to release his rights to him. In fact, it was his idea originally. Now he doesn't want anything to do with her but doesn't want my husband to have her.
What can I do? My daughter at the very least has been pushing for a name change (change it to my husband name). What can I do? Can she petition the court herself? She is chronically ill and I'm worried that the stress of court might not be in her best interest but the stress over not getting something she so wants and feels that she needs could also be just as bad for her.