lovchristina
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? California
State this took place in was Oklahoma
I occasionally check my husband's ex-wife's livejournal to view how his
kid's are doing because she will never respond to inquires from us about
talking to them. I saw that she posted that in November her new husband legally
adopted my stepchildren even though we were never informed. When we saw this my
husband IM her on yahoo messenger to ask her about it because we had never been
contacted and asked if we could have a copy of the paperwork. We never got a
reply however on her livejournal she talked about our IM mocking us and said her
attorney told her to ignore us. My question is whether this is legal. My husband
was never even contacted about this adoption let alone consented to it. We had
been talking about the possibility between him and I since the kids are young
enough to only know the other man as a father but we wanted the option. We
can't even figure out how to get copies of the paperwork for our records She claims we are harassing her though all we did was IM her the 1 time asking for copies of the paperwork. DO we have options on this? How can we get copies of the paperwork without her? This was filed in oklahoma and my husband and I are in california
State this took place in was Oklahoma
I occasionally check my husband's ex-wife's livejournal to view how his
kid's are doing because she will never respond to inquires from us about
talking to them. I saw that she posted that in November her new husband legally
adopted my stepchildren even though we were never informed. When we saw this my
husband IM her on yahoo messenger to ask her about it because we had never been
contacted and asked if we could have a copy of the paperwork. We never got a
reply however on her livejournal she talked about our IM mocking us and said her
attorney told her to ignore us. My question is whether this is legal. My husband
was never even contacted about this adoption let alone consented to it. We had
been talking about the possibility between him and I since the kids are young
enough to only know the other man as a father but we wanted the option. We
can't even figure out how to get copies of the paperwork for our records She claims we are harassing her though all we did was IM her the 1 time asking for copies of the paperwork. DO we have options on this? How can we get copies of the paperwork without her? This was filed in oklahoma and my husband and I are in california
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