What is the name of your state? Iowa
This is a long story but I'll try to stick with details. Two girls (different fathers) are placed with maternal grandparents. Mother's rights are terminated, father's rights are terminated on 3yo and being contested on 1 yo.
These girls were placed in foster homes first before my parents took them in. The adoption is ready to go on the 3 yo and almost ready on 1 yo. However, the state who has been subsidizing my parents w/legal fees & other monies, originally said they would pay for all fees associated with adoption. Now they are saying they will have to pay for their own lawyer.
Since the one is ready to go right now and the other won't be ready for a few more months, my parents are going to tell DHS that they won't go thru with adoption unless they pay for it (they didn't ask for the kids & didn't know them before DHS asked if they would take them in). However, they've had the girls for 1 1/2 yrs and want the adoptions to go thru but they don't have money for lawyer.
Is this situation something that can be handled on their own (pro se)? Once the 1 yo's father's rights are terminated, they will not be contested cases as DHS has been backing my parents since day 1.
If pro se, can be done, where could we find the needed forms?
This is a long story but I'll try to stick with details. Two girls (different fathers) are placed with maternal grandparents. Mother's rights are terminated, father's rights are terminated on 3yo and being contested on 1 yo.
These girls were placed in foster homes first before my parents took them in. The adoption is ready to go on the 3 yo and almost ready on 1 yo. However, the state who has been subsidizing my parents w/legal fees & other monies, originally said they would pay for all fees associated with adoption. Now they are saying they will have to pay for their own lawyer.
Since the one is ready to go right now and the other won't be ready for a few more months, my parents are going to tell DHS that they won't go thru with adoption unless they pay for it (they didn't ask for the kids & didn't know them before DHS asked if they would take them in). However, they've had the girls for 1 1/2 yrs and want the adoptions to go thru but they don't have money for lawyer.
Is this situation something that can be handled on their own (pro se)? Once the 1 yo's father's rights are terminated, they will not be contested cases as DHS has been backing my parents since day 1.
If pro se, can be done, where could we find the needed forms?