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09-02-2008, 04:27 PM
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5 years ago I met my husband. A month befor that he had broke up with the women he was with. She called about 4 months into our relationship and told us she was pregnate with his baby...Well he didnt believe it was his. Anyways so she gave the baby to her aunt (no legal papers or anything). Last month we found out it was his son and we would have to pay $700 a month in child support on a child that we have never seen and not to mention we have two children of our own...So we was wondering if she could adopt him...We dont know where to start with this. I know you can get forms off the internet but what would we have to do after that??? We dont know how this works.....Help please | 
09-02-2008, 04:29 PM
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You don't have a dog in this fight. This has NOTHING to do with YOU. You will not EVER have to pay a PENNY in child support.
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09-02-2008, 04:29 PM
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| | | Q: So we was wondering if she could adopt him?
A: Who is "she"?
You need a lawyer to help you through this.
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09-02-2008, 04:30 PM
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| | | No but my husband does....we just wouldnt be able to make it if we paid her $700 a month | 
09-02-2008, 04:31 PM
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| | | The she i was refuring to is the aunt | 
09-02-2008, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Rookie8itch The she i was refuring to is the aunt | Does auntie want to adopt the kid?
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09-02-2008, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by seniorjudge You need a lawyer to help you through this. | In all honestly, our OP doesn't need a lawyer. Her HUSBAND needs the lawyer 
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09-02-2008, 04:37 PM
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| | | The she i was refuring to is the aunt | 
09-02-2008, 04:38 PM
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| | | The aunt really really wants ro adopt the kid! And we talked to a lawyer but he never mention HER adopting the kid | 
09-02-2008, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Rookie8itch The aunt really really wants ro adopt the kid! And we talked to a lawyer but he never mention HER adopting the kid | If auntie wants to adopt the kid, then auntie needs to get a lawyer.
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09-02-2008, 04:51 PM
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| | | Is there anyway that we can do this without lawyers? | 
09-02-2008, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Rookie8itch Is there anyway that we can do this without lawyers? | As long as ma and auntie agree, you may have a shot at it.
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09-02-2008, 04:59 PM
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| | | papers i seen online a form that pretty much looks like we could just get it notorized but i dont know how it works | 
09-02-2008, 05:01 PM
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| | | can you tell me where to start | 
09-02-2008, 05:07 PM
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| | | would the papers online help any? | |
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