| I am not sure what you mean, either, but the adoption process requires quite a number of expenses.
In our case, well over $20,000 in assorted fees. This includes about $2500 for a Home Study required by the state, hundreds in INS Visa fees, plus FBI fingerprint check. The agency fees for overseeing the process and to pay the in-country facilitator. Travel costs. Our legal costs here. Fee to translate and Apostille documents. Orphanage donation. I-600 Visa physicals. Even an accountant fee for a "financial statement". Passport cost for our daughter, etc. etc.
In Domestic adoption, some fees are different, but there are always expenses involved. Any legal process carries them.
For what it's worth, I do believe it is VERY wrong to not always be honest with your child about how you bacame a family. One should not first discover this at a later age. Becoming a family by choice is nothing that needs to be hidden. Our daughter has always known that when she was a baby she "lived in a "baby home" in Bulgaria until we got to be her Mommy and Daddy when we adopted her"
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Adoptive parents ARE "real" parents. Sharing genes is not what makes you a "parent"!
Last edited by nextwife; 03-10-2004 at 11:02 AM.
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