Sorrowful End
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What is the name of your state? California
My question concerns the birth record of an adoptive child where the mother was married and the husband was not the father. My fiancee divorced his exwife after learning that the child they put up for adoption was not his. He had a vasectomy and his Ex became pregnant two months afterwards, she denied having an affair. However, she wanted to put the child up for an open adoption, which he agreed to since they could not afford another child (thus him having the vasectomy). When the child was born it was obviously not his (the child was Hispanic and neither of them are). She still denied an affair and the adoption proceeded. The marriage disentigrated afterwards and in anger she blurted out the truth. Now it is bothering him that he is on the baby's birth record. He was wanting to have it removed somehow and notify the adoptive parents. On a whim I went on California's Vital Records site and did a search and was stunned to find the baby's information. However, the baby has been listed twice, as if he was given two birth records. One has my fiancee's name listed as the last name and the other has his Exwife's last name listed, as if she wasn't married. Could she have had his name removed without his knowledge? Since this was an open adoption it would have been obvious to the adoptive parents that the child was not his. Could they have insisted on a new birth record before adopting so the adoption wouldn't be in question? If she did have it changed what procedures would she have had to follow to do so? If his name is now not on the final record could he obtain a copy of both records? And lastly, would the records show the date they were issued? I know this is a lot of questions to answer but any help anyone can give would be very appreciated. Thank you in advance.
My question concerns the birth record of an adoptive child where the mother was married and the husband was not the father. My fiancee divorced his exwife after learning that the child they put up for adoption was not his. He had a vasectomy and his Ex became pregnant two months afterwards, she denied having an affair. However, she wanted to put the child up for an open adoption, which he agreed to since they could not afford another child (thus him having the vasectomy). When the child was born it was obviously not his (the child was Hispanic and neither of them are). She still denied an affair and the adoption proceeded. The marriage disentigrated afterwards and in anger she blurted out the truth. Now it is bothering him that he is on the baby's birth record. He was wanting to have it removed somehow and notify the adoptive parents. On a whim I went on California's Vital Records site and did a search and was stunned to find the baby's information. However, the baby has been listed twice, as if he was given two birth records. One has my fiancee's name listed as the last name and the other has his Exwife's last name listed, as if she wasn't married. Could she have had his name removed without his knowledge? Since this was an open adoption it would have been obvious to the adoptive parents that the child was not his. Could they have insisted on a new birth record before adopting so the adoption wouldn't be in question? If she did have it changed what procedures would she have had to follow to do so? If his name is now not on the final record could he obtain a copy of both records? And lastly, would the records show the date they were issued? I know this is a lot of questions to answer but any help anyone can give would be very appreciated. Thank you in advance.