my boyfriend wants to adopte my son

[mommy20_2004]

What is the name of your state?new york

can my boyfriend file to adopte my son?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

No. your son HAS a father.

 

[mommy20_2004]

yes he has a father that doesn't want anything to do with him and that hasn't seen him in almost a year nor has he called to see how he was doing

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Your son HAS a father.

 

[mommy20_2004]

that doesn't give a damn about him so why can't the one that has been in his life and does love him adopte him?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Your child HAS a father. Is that so hard to understand?

Now, save about $2,000 and go speak to a local attorney who is getting paid to listen to you.

your child HAS a father. PERIOD!

 

[mommy20_2004]

well you are a rude one
some help you can give
i will spend the money instead of dealing with your crap

 

[BelizeBreeze]

well you are a rude one
some help you can give
i will spend the money instead of dealing with your crap

Your son STILL has a father.

 

[stealth2]

No, your BOYFRIEND cannot adopt.

 

[mommy20_2004]

sorry to say but if that is what you call a father then i would like to know what is wrong with all the good fathers out there
hell a father would care if there child was ok or not

 

[stealth2]

Your boyfriend still can't adopt.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

sorry to say but if that is what you call a father then i would like to know what is wrong with all the good fathers out there
hell a father would care if there child was ok or not

Your child HAS a father....You have a boyfriend...next week you'll have warts....and your child will STILL have a father.

 

[mommy20_2004]

stealth2

well thank you very much for answering my ?
you have a good evening now

 

[listed3]

I don't know the laws of your State, but it is very likely Stealth is right - your boyfirend probably cannot adopt your child unless you get married, and even then it will probably require some waiting period of a year or two.

Even after that period is over, you would probably have to show "abandonment" by the biodad, which usually requires no contact, no child support, or both.

You may wish to investigate the laws of your state or consult with an attorney to determine what your options are if and when you get married.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

I don't know the laws of your State, but it is very likely Stealth is right - your boyfirend probably cannot adopt your child unless you get married, and even then it will probably require some waiting period of a year or two.

Even after that period is over, you would probably have to show "abandonment" by the biodad, which usually requires no contact, no child support, or both.

You may wish to investigate the laws of your state or consult with an attorney to determine what your options are if and when you get married.

It is NOT very likely stealth is right.

SHE IS right. PERIOD.