mrseddelman
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
My daughter is going to be 9 this year. Her father & I split up when she was about 6 months old. He didn't want anything to do with her until he found out I had a new boyfriend at the time...I let him see her and do things with her and then on Halloween night when she was almost 2 he called me and said he wasn't ever bringing her back again. I called the police and he finally did bring her home the next day. In the same day I went and filed in court. At first he was granted visitation every weekend, & to pay child support. Well he wasn't paying like he was suppose to, quit showing up on time, would show up drunk, so I took him back to court & they took away visitation. They did a in home inspection and found his home at the time to be un-fit. Really I am just over the whole situation. What it comes down to is that he hasn't seen her since she was 2, she doesn't remember him, she thinks my husband now is her father. She has a sister & a brother and we are all doing great. Her biological father as moved probably as far south as he could and has nothing to do with her for over 6 going on 7 years. My number is the same his family knows where I live, although I have had problems with the rest of his family in the past. My husband wants to adopt her, what would I need to do to have this done?
I don't even want the child support none of the money can make up for the time he has lost with her. 7 yrs. is a lot of time. We are happy the way things are now I just know she feels left out not having the same last name as us and she ask me about it.
My daughter is going to be 9 this year. Her father & I split up when she was about 6 months old. He didn't want anything to do with her until he found out I had a new boyfriend at the time...I let him see her and do things with her and then on Halloween night when she was almost 2 he called me and said he wasn't ever bringing her back again. I called the police and he finally did bring her home the next day. In the same day I went and filed in court. At first he was granted visitation every weekend, & to pay child support. Well he wasn't paying like he was suppose to, quit showing up on time, would show up drunk, so I took him back to court & they took away visitation. They did a in home inspection and found his home at the time to be un-fit. Really I am just over the whole situation. What it comes down to is that he hasn't seen her since she was 2, she doesn't remember him, she thinks my husband now is her father. She has a sister & a brother and we are all doing great. Her biological father as moved probably as far south as he could and has nothing to do with her for over 6 going on 7 years. My number is the same his family knows where I live, although I have had problems with the rest of his family in the past. My husband wants to adopt her, what would I need to do to have this done?
I don't even want the child support none of the money can make up for the time he has lost with her. 7 yrs. is a lot of time. We are happy the way things are now I just know she feels left out not having the same last name as us and she ask me about it.