What is the name of your state? California
I am a grandparent living in Oregon who lost visitation rights to my two grandsons in a San Diego court this past May. My son, his former spouse and her new husband all filed declarations agreeing to my son's giving the new step-father legal and physical custody of his two sons and my son's declaration stated that he would be terminating his parental rights "at the appropriate time."
Does California law mandate that the paternal grandparents will receive any kind of notice that this has taken place?
I haven't seen my grandsons for two years (devastating and painful, you cannot imagine the heartache --they are 11 and 8) nor my son for 2 years. Don't even ask.....Navy SEAL with sociopathic behavior inherited from his father whom he hasn't seen (son's choice) for 14 years. Son has chosen to completely sever himself from both sides of the family. I would be a reminder that he had given up his boys. So he has remarried, a dentist, and has thrown out his family so he is not reminded of the past 12 years of his life. In hindsight the sad part is that my San Diego attorneys didn't really apprise me of what a slim chance I had to win any visitation (under Section 3104...we lost first under 3103 filed September, 2004), especially if both parents oppose it. I should never have taken it to the courts. Anyway, will I receive any notice that an adoption is taking place? The boys have been using their step-father's last name since June, 2004.
Thank you.
Trail213
I am a grandparent living in Oregon who lost visitation rights to my two grandsons in a San Diego court this past May. My son, his former spouse and her new husband all filed declarations agreeing to my son's giving the new step-father legal and physical custody of his two sons and my son's declaration stated that he would be terminating his parental rights "at the appropriate time."
Does California law mandate that the paternal grandparents will receive any kind of notice that this has taken place?
I haven't seen my grandsons for two years (devastating and painful, you cannot imagine the heartache --they are 11 and 8) nor my son for 2 years. Don't even ask.....Navy SEAL with sociopathic behavior inherited from his father whom he hasn't seen (son's choice) for 14 years. Son has chosen to completely sever himself from both sides of the family. I would be a reminder that he had given up his boys. So he has remarried, a dentist, and has thrown out his family so he is not reminded of the past 12 years of his life. In hindsight the sad part is that my San Diego attorneys didn't really apprise me of what a slim chance I had to win any visitation (under Section 3104...we lost first under 3103 filed September, 2004), especially if both parents oppose it. I should never have taken it to the courts. Anyway, will I receive any notice that an adoption is taking place? The boys have been using their step-father's last name since June, 2004.
Thank you.
Trail213