MangoTango
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? VA
I have read through several pages here and cannot find any other situations like mine.
I divorced my ex in 2000. He has had very limited visitation with our daughter. In June 2007, he stated that he would terminte his rights to our daughter. My attorney drew up "consert under oath by birth father" and forwarded to my ex's attorney.
That document states:
1. That he is so-n-so
2. his is the birth father of a child named XYZ born on DOB.
3. That I am the birth mother of XYZ
4. He consents to the adoption of XYZ by my biological father and the change of her name from XYZ to XYB.
Ex has signed this consent. His attorney is stating that the judge will not sign this because it looks like I'm entrusting my daughter to my dad and I could go back to ex next month or whenever for child support.
I guess I'm not understanding exactly what he means. My attorney says "no, once you give he gives up his right and the judge signs the documents, that I couldn't go back for child support." My Dad has always helped support this child, even when ex and I were married.
I've read wonderful advice here from everyone. Just wondering if anyone had heard of anythying like this.
Thanks in advance.
I have read through several pages here and cannot find any other situations like mine.
I divorced my ex in 2000. He has had very limited visitation with our daughter. In June 2007, he stated that he would terminte his rights to our daughter. My attorney drew up "consert under oath by birth father" and forwarded to my ex's attorney.
That document states:
1. That he is so-n-so
2. his is the birth father of a child named XYZ born on DOB.
3. That I am the birth mother of XYZ
4. He consents to the adoption of XYZ by my biological father and the change of her name from XYZ to XYB.
Ex has signed this consent. His attorney is stating that the judge will not sign this because it looks like I'm entrusting my daughter to my dad and I could go back to ex next month or whenever for child support.
I guess I'm not understanding exactly what he means. My attorney says "no, once you give he gives up his right and the judge signs the documents, that I couldn't go back for child support." My Dad has always helped support this child, even when ex and I were married.
I've read wonderful advice here from everyone. Just wondering if anyone had heard of anythying like this.
Thanks in advance.