My apologies. I should have been more clear and given more facts.
Bio-dad HAD & LOST custody of his first child. My daughter left him after she announced her pregnancy because he claimed it wasn't his and that she was cheating on him. (She was either at work or with him, no time for her to cheat even if she was the unfaithful type). My daughter has threatened him with a restraining order because he stalks her. In my opinion, bio-dad IS a loser, an a scary one at that.
I admit my daughter is naive and stupid when it comes to men, but she is an adult and I try to keep my nose out of it as much as I can. She came to me for advice that I obviously was not qualified to offer. She wanted to go the route of claiming she did not know who the father was and I told her she could not do that. Aside from it being illegal (even I know that much), he is already aware that he has a child on the way. I would hate for that child to be placed in a loving home only to be taken away when the father finds out what has happened.
Ok. That said, so she may have to keep the baby herself, my new question is; because she will be the custodial parent, is she able to give temporary custody (not adoption, mind you) to a relative (me for instance), without the father's permission.