coldeagle82
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Hello, my fiance and I are planning on getting married in the next year or so and I have been our daughters father since she was one and a half. She'll be four in August, and I'm the only father she has ever known (and likely to know). I understand that a child is considered abandoned if they haven't communicated with the child in over a year and haven't provided financial support. The sperm donor has had to have his wages garnished to provide child support and it's gotten down to less than $100 a month (I contribute way more than that). He only saw her right after she was born (he left my fiance the day after he found out she was pregnant), and refused to even hold the child. If the guy doesn't support the adoption (the only time he has EVER shown any interest in the child is when I've posted something on Facebook and someone commented on the fact that I'm a good dad or some such, and it's been to say that I'm not her father...), will I likely run into any difficulties? I would like to stream line and honestly not have the drama (I'm hoping it won't come down to it, and hopefully the fact that he won't have his wages garnished any longer will be enough incentive). My daughter is young enough to where she doesn't understand all this crud and I would like to save her the confusion later.
Thanks for any advice!
Hello, my fiance and I are planning on getting married in the next year or so and I have been our daughters father since she was one and a half. She'll be four in August, and I'm the only father she has ever known (and likely to know). I understand that a child is considered abandoned if they haven't communicated with the child in over a year and haven't provided financial support. The sperm donor has had to have his wages garnished to provide child support and it's gotten down to less than $100 a month (I contribute way more than that). He only saw her right after she was born (he left my fiance the day after he found out she was pregnant), and refused to even hold the child. If the guy doesn't support the adoption (the only time he has EVER shown any interest in the child is when I've posted something on Facebook and someone commented on the fact that I'm a good dad or some such, and it's been to say that I'm not her father...), will I likely run into any difficulties? I would like to stream line and honestly not have the drama (I'm hoping it won't come down to it, and hopefully the fact that he won't have his wages garnished any longer will be enough incentive). My daughter is young enough to where she doesn't understand all this crud and I would like to save her the confusion later.
Thanks for any advice!