Sparkle263
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? LOUISIANA
I have a 9 yr daughter from my ex-boyfriend. We have been separated for 5 years now with domestic court involved and a restraining orders, and a permanent no-contact order protecting me & my daughter.
I have court papers granting me full custody.
He is supposed to pay child support though he hasn't paid any in over 4 years, to the tune of around $27,000 past due.
Obviously I know I will never get any more, and honestly that is OK as long as he stays away.
He is currently in jail - He violated probation again. (in for about a year this time, but has been in & out for the past 5 years), mainly for domestic violence issues, drug charges, assault on police charges etc. Has had 4 or 5 felony convictions for these types of charges.
I am now engaged to be married to a wonderful man, whom I have been living with for 3 1/2 years now. He loves my daughter as his own, and now most people don't even realize that she isn't his.
Once we are married he wants to legally adopt her (she & I and all of our family all want the same)
(The reason we aren't married yet is we are saving up for the wedding, been paying off atty bills from the domestic court issues)
But when we do go to file for the adoption (after we are married), I know they will have to terminate the bios rights first, which I know he will try to contest.
(Even though he has nothing to do with her - he uses not seeing her as an excuse for all his problems and actions)
How much trouble will I have convincing the court to terminate his right and allow the adoption???
Or will/could this open up a can of worms of him trying to regain partial custody???
(He never was granted any form of custody or even visitation rights, just originally had it since his name is on the birth certificate & he signed the paternity acknowledgment)
(I know I will have to get an atty, but right now do not have the money, just trying to get some advice)
I have a 9 yr daughter from my ex-boyfriend. We have been separated for 5 years now with domestic court involved and a restraining orders, and a permanent no-contact order protecting me & my daughter.
I have court papers granting me full custody.
He is supposed to pay child support though he hasn't paid any in over 4 years, to the tune of around $27,000 past due.
Obviously I know I will never get any more, and honestly that is OK as long as he stays away.
He is currently in jail - He violated probation again. (in for about a year this time, but has been in & out for the past 5 years), mainly for domestic violence issues, drug charges, assault on police charges etc. Has had 4 or 5 felony convictions for these types of charges.
I am now engaged to be married to a wonderful man, whom I have been living with for 3 1/2 years now. He loves my daughter as his own, and now most people don't even realize that she isn't his.
Once we are married he wants to legally adopt her (she & I and all of our family all want the same)
(The reason we aren't married yet is we are saving up for the wedding, been paying off atty bills from the domestic court issues)
But when we do go to file for the adoption (after we are married), I know they will have to terminate the bios rights first, which I know he will try to contest.
(Even though he has nothing to do with her - he uses not seeing her as an excuse for all his problems and actions)
How much trouble will I have convincing the court to terminate his right and allow the adoption???
Or will/could this open up a can of worms of him trying to regain partial custody???
(He never was granted any form of custody or even visitation rights, just originally had it since his name is on the birth certificate & he signed the paternity acknowledgment)
(I know I will have to get an atty, but right now do not have the money, just trying to get some advice)