What is the name of your state? California & Texas
Bfather and all support and custody court orders are in California. I am in Texas because my husband is in the Army. Bfather has not paid CS in over 5 1/2 years and owes 20,000 in back CS. He did not have any contact with her for three years and then he decided he wanted to be daddy for about two weeks and then went another two years with no contact. Which is where we are now. My daughter is 8, and I have been married for 7 years. And my husband has wants to adopt her. I left messages on BF phone to see if he will voluntarily give up his rights, and he will not return my phone calls. I dont have any money for a lawyer, I had a lawyer when BF took me to court for visitation 5 years ago. I paid that lawyer $2500 ( and that was a discount with pre paid legal). It was a retainer fee, which I know I didnt use the whole thing for a modification of visitation. When I called the law office regarding the contract and retainer, they said I may have to pay another consultation fee or something, and that they would have the lawyer call me back. Two phone calls to them with no return call yet. The contract with the lawyer states "OSC RE: Modification of Visitation & Accounting of Arrears". The lawyer never even drew up the Formal Orders for the modification of visitation like he was supposed to. I only found that out after requesting my copy of orders from the lawyer and he kept saying I should have got them, so I went to the court house to get them myself and they are the ones who told me that my lawyer didnt make them. Also he never even did the accounting of arrears, which I'm not sure but that sounds like back CS to me. And I don't know what OSC means.I dont want my money back, and I told them that when I called, I just wanted them to help me. So I dont know where to get help now. I also dont know if I need to file for termination of rights and step-parent adoption in California or Texas. Any help would be great, thank you so much.
Chandi
Bfather and all support and custody court orders are in California. I am in Texas because my husband is in the Army. Bfather has not paid CS in over 5 1/2 years and owes 20,000 in back CS. He did not have any contact with her for three years and then he decided he wanted to be daddy for about two weeks and then went another two years with no contact. Which is where we are now. My daughter is 8, and I have been married for 7 years. And my husband has wants to adopt her. I left messages on BF phone to see if he will voluntarily give up his rights, and he will not return my phone calls. I dont have any money for a lawyer, I had a lawyer when BF took me to court for visitation 5 years ago. I paid that lawyer $2500 ( and that was a discount with pre paid legal). It was a retainer fee, which I know I didnt use the whole thing for a modification of visitation. When I called the law office regarding the contract and retainer, they said I may have to pay another consultation fee or something, and that they would have the lawyer call me back. Two phone calls to them with no return call yet. The contract with the lawyer states "OSC RE: Modification of Visitation & Accounting of Arrears". The lawyer never even drew up the Formal Orders for the modification of visitation like he was supposed to. I only found that out after requesting my copy of orders from the lawyer and he kept saying I should have got them, so I went to the court house to get them myself and they are the ones who told me that my lawyer didnt make them. Also he never even did the accounting of arrears, which I'm not sure but that sounds like back CS to me. And I don't know what OSC means.I dont want my money back, and I told them that when I called, I just wanted them to help me. So I dont know where to get help now. I also dont know if I need to file for termination of rights and step-parent adoption in California or Texas. Any help would be great, thank you so much.
Chandi