Nexie...the divorce was 14 years ago. We have absolutely no idea how long the marriage was, because he didn't say. However, if he has been paying alimony for 14 years, its a pretty good guess that the marriage was more than 14 years long.
Also, what anyone believes could or should have happened is irrelevant. What is relevant is what the current court orders state and what a judge will order if it goes back to court.
We all know how strongly you feel about this subject. However again, its irrelevant. Again, what is relevant is what the current court orders state and what a judge might order if it goes back to court.