bluesinger
Junior Member
I live in nj. My current child support is $400 doll ars per week that includes alimony. My wife collects ssdi and has worked part time up to the limit so she doesnt lose her ssdi. We have married for 22yrs. She says she can get pemanent alimony for life if we go to court based on her raing the kids. She has the third distribution of a inheritance coming for about $30,000. The first two installments we used to pay off joint credit cards and she bought me a car.The mediator says i am not entitled to any of that unless she comingles with the house funds. Now she is going to use part of that money for renovations in the house so that we can sell. Once the house is sold half the porfits will go to me. I in turn will give it back to her in lieu of child support so that she can afford to buy house with kids in another state.(north carolina) We go back to mediation in two weeks. She is willing to drop the amount to $300 per week once she gets inheritance in august. We are agreeing tentaively on me paying $300 dollars per week for one year or when the house is sold.
which ever comes first. It is in my best interest to make sure she doesnt foreclose on house then we both lose. She gets ssdi of 1!200 per month and makes another $900 which is her lmit. Plus my child and alimony of 1600 dollars currently. So basically she makes about $36,000 a year working part time!! The mortgage is 1900 per month. Should i go for this deal or fight her?
which ever comes first. It is in my best interest to make sure she doesnt foreclose on house then we both lose. She gets ssdi of 1!200 per month and makes another $900 which is her lmit. Plus my child and alimony of 1600 dollars currently. So basically she makes about $36,000 a year working part time!! The mortgage is 1900 per month. Should i go for this deal or fight her?