Brknpickrenvy
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?Nevada
I was sent here by another forum because it's a legal issue and not a tactics and strategy matter.
Me 51 w no mutual kids in home
76K - 900 mo prev child support (CS)
Under 5 yr marr filed 1/15/16
Purchased home 4/2016
Borrowed 20k my TSP
Her name on title (NV Law)
Me pay 100% mortgage and bills (exception electric and food-do pay some household food etc.- kept receipts
Home bought 206,000 inc closing cost, now est 224,000
Me TSP and FERS.
Me 30k CC debt from <5yrs making up deficit of her not paying elect and food, maintaining lifestyle {I know not good stewardship on my part:-( I have receipts and statements showing these payments food (electric and previously agreed cable bill before switched over to electric when she could not pay ?gambling?)
Her 51 w 1 17yoa son (17S)
42K gross self emp + minimal (some (for 17S CS for two years and continuing, mostly not being used for helping w household)
Waste claim by me (Gambling not contributing equal or equitable)
Provided me docs showing 70K deposits in account (provided photocopy to my atty)
Have digital recording (her stating that 70k includes me winning 600 or so here or there and depositing in my account)
Her using one bank so statements should be easily attainable if not required by court.
Her spent est 1k on home upgrades + her and some of my labor
Her previous to marriage paying 500 mo 2 bdrm apt w son, gambling, drinking etc.
Me 2bdrm 900 mo attempting to get custody of son in AZ. No drinking gambling etc.
How does this shake out. I am not moving, she saying she if not staying together then wants me to move out, her wanting to stay in house for one more year until son graduates or moves out, then her selling house. I want to stay in house, her move out w son, which she can afford, and me get custody at least half or summer custody of my son in AZ (6 yoa). I offered verbally to take all the debt including 20k loan and cc debt if she just walks away. Of course she is due TSP FERS and equity but should not be more than debt and loan against home (TSP).
I guess it is really two questions; division of assets and alimony. Neither of us have joint accounts and I pay her car insurance and have her and her son on my health insurance.
Additionally her son is smoking pot in and around house when we are not here(have photo) and has punched two holes in walls in his room. Mom not doing anything).
I was sent here by another forum because it's a legal issue and not a tactics and strategy matter.
Me 51 w no mutual kids in home
76K - 900 mo prev child support (CS)
Under 5 yr marr filed 1/15/16
Purchased home 4/2016
Borrowed 20k my TSP
Her name on title (NV Law)
Me pay 100% mortgage and bills (exception electric and food-do pay some household food etc.- kept receipts
Home bought 206,000 inc closing cost, now est 224,000
Me TSP and FERS.
Me 30k CC debt from <5yrs making up deficit of her not paying elect and food, maintaining lifestyle {I know not good stewardship on my part:-( I have receipts and statements showing these payments food (electric and previously agreed cable bill before switched over to electric when she could not pay ?gambling?)
Her 51 w 1 17yoa son (17S)
42K gross self emp + minimal (some (for 17S CS for two years and continuing, mostly not being used for helping w household)
Waste claim by me (Gambling not contributing equal or equitable)
Provided me docs showing 70K deposits in account (provided photocopy to my atty)
Have digital recording (her stating that 70k includes me winning 600 or so here or there and depositing in my account)
Her using one bank so statements should be easily attainable if not required by court.
Her spent est 1k on home upgrades + her and some of my labor
Her previous to marriage paying 500 mo 2 bdrm apt w son, gambling, drinking etc.
Me 2bdrm 900 mo attempting to get custody of son in AZ. No drinking gambling etc.
How does this shake out. I am not moving, she saying she if not staying together then wants me to move out, her wanting to stay in house for one more year until son graduates or moves out, then her selling house. I want to stay in house, her move out w son, which she can afford, and me get custody at least half or summer custody of my son in AZ (6 yoa). I offered verbally to take all the debt including 20k loan and cc debt if she just walks away. Of course she is due TSP FERS and equity but should not be more than debt and loan against home (TSP).
I guess it is really two questions; division of assets and alimony. Neither of us have joint accounts and I pay her car insurance and have her and her son on my health insurance.
Additionally her son is smoking pot in and around house when we are not here(have photo) and has punched two holes in walls in his room. Mom not doing anything).
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