What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Maryland
Wife and I have been separated since March 2007 (married for 26 years), with 3 children, 2 now over the age of 18, and the youngest (16) living with me in the marital home. Wife left the home and all bills with me. She is now living with her parents. She had two affairs, started and failed a business using the marital home as collateral for the business loan. She declared bankruptcy along with her partner (and lover). I was the guarantor and am now responsible as well for that loan. The home is now under water.
I have Pendente Lite custody of the minor child and have always provided all support to him as well as the older children (including all college expenses).
She is declaring constructive desertion as her basis for leaving. I am contesting that.
She now wants permanent alimony as she is claiming at the age of 47, and having cared for the children most of our marriage that she cannot rehabilitate herself to a point where she can live on her own. (She does have a college degree and have worked in the past). She has an administrative job now paying $36k to my salary of about $170k (although I carry all debt right now).
If we were to settle out of court what would be reasonable? Would the courts normally award permanent alimony due to duration of marriage and dispartity in income?
Wife and I have been separated since March 2007 (married for 26 years), with 3 children, 2 now over the age of 18, and the youngest (16) living with me in the marital home. Wife left the home and all bills with me. She is now living with her parents. She had two affairs, started and failed a business using the marital home as collateral for the business loan. She declared bankruptcy along with her partner (and lover). I was the guarantor and am now responsible as well for that loan. The home is now under water.
I have Pendente Lite custody of the minor child and have always provided all support to him as well as the older children (including all college expenses).
She is declaring constructive desertion as her basis for leaving. I am contesting that.
She now wants permanent alimony as she is claiming at the age of 47, and having cared for the children most of our marriage that she cannot rehabilitate herself to a point where she can live on her own. (She does have a college degree and have worked in the past). She has an administrative job now paying $36k to my salary of about $170k (although I carry all debt right now).
If we were to settle out of court what would be reasonable? Would the courts normally award permanent alimony due to duration of marriage and dispartity in income?