maddysmommy2008
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? MS
What is the name of your state? MS
I know that generally alimony is not awarded in a short-term marriage, but are there ever circumstances where it is?
Here's my situation. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. I have a child from a previous marriage, who lives with me and my husband full-time.
My husband has 3 kids from a previous marriage. They also live with us full-time.
One week after my husband and I got married, I was laid off from my job. At that time, he was in the middle of a custody battle with his exwife to get custody of his kids. He asked me not to get another job bc he thought it would help his custody case if he could show that there would be an at-home full-time parent in his home.
He won custody of his three kids. He and I both decided that it would be best for the kdis if I didn't work. That way I would be able to attend all school functions, handle the day-to-day responsibilities of the household, etc.
I have not worked in 4 years. I think my husband and I are headed for divorce.
Is this a situation where a judge might award me alimony even though it was a short-term marriage? After all, I didn't work outside the home for 4 years at his request and insistance so that I could raise the 3 kids he has with another woman for him. Yes, I was able to spend more time with my daughter as well, but before he and I met, I always worked and I raised my daughter just fine while working full-time. I only didn't work for 4 years because it was what he wanted.
Thanks for any opinions.
What is the name of your state? MS
I know that generally alimony is not awarded in a short-term marriage, but are there ever circumstances where it is?
Here's my situation. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. I have a child from a previous marriage, who lives with me and my husband full-time.
My husband has 3 kids from a previous marriage. They also live with us full-time.
One week after my husband and I got married, I was laid off from my job. At that time, he was in the middle of a custody battle with his exwife to get custody of his kids. He asked me not to get another job bc he thought it would help his custody case if he could show that there would be an at-home full-time parent in his home.
He won custody of his three kids. He and I both decided that it would be best for the kdis if I didn't work. That way I would be able to attend all school functions, handle the day-to-day responsibilities of the household, etc.
I have not worked in 4 years. I think my husband and I are headed for divorce.
Is this a situation where a judge might award me alimony even though it was a short-term marriage? After all, I didn't work outside the home for 4 years at his request and insistance so that I could raise the 3 kids he has with another woman for him. Yes, I was able to spend more time with my daughter as well, but before he and I met, I always worked and I raised my daughter just fine while working full-time. I only didn't work for 4 years because it was what he wanted.
Thanks for any opinions.