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[3rdpartyrights]

What is the name of your state? NJ

I'm a NY resident, my g/f lives in NJ & is divorced there. (Was married 20 years, Before we met.) Her ex has done anything & everything to not have to pay her short of being dragged to court repeatedly for numerous violations of their agreement, which usually the judge won't hear & get remanded to arbitration.

Now her ex has filed a motion to eliminate her perminent alimony based on "cohabitation" (a private investigator taped me there 3 times in 2 days, & my vehicle was filmed there 18 more days in 4 months.)

He is petitioning the court to subpoena me & all my financial institutions basically for any/all financial records of mine...bank acct, ss#, cc, investment, retirement etc etc for a period of 2 years that he 'beleives" we live together.

Already I received a package of questions to answer requesting personal financial informationm which I don't want him to have based on his constant legal action against her already.

What rights do I have to fight this? Is it even possible? Or do I just need to get an attourney & be sucked into their legal battles?

Thanks for your help.What is the name of your state?

[Ohiogal]

Are you cohabitating? Providing her with any support? You are not being dragged in necessarily. Get an attorney.

[Bali Hai]

Originally Posted by 3rdpartyrights

What is the name of your state? NJ

I'm a NY resident, my g/f lives in NJ & is divorced there. (Was married 20 years, Before we met.) Her ex has done anything & everything to not have to pay her short of being dragged to court repeatedly for numerous violations of their agreement, which usually the judge won't hear & get remanded to arbitration.

Now her ex has filed a motion to eliminate her perminent alimony based on "cohabitation" (a private investigator taped me there 3 times in 2 days, & my vehicle was filmed there 18 more days in 4 months.)

He is petitioning the court to subpoena me & all my financial institutions basically for any/all financial records of mine...bank acct, ss#, cc, investment, retirement etc etc for a period of 2 years that he 'beleives" we live together.

Already I received a package of questions to answer requesting personal financial informationm which I don't want him to have based on his constant legal action against her already.

What rights do I have to fight this? Is it even possible? Or do I just need to get an attourney & be sucked into their legal battles?

Thanks for your help.What is the name of your state?

Your first mistake: Getting involved with a divorced woman receiving alimony.

Your second mistake: Providing support to a divorced woman who is stealing money from her ex-husband. If it was you supporting the deadbeat, you would be doing the same as the ex-husband is doing right now.

Get a lawyer sugar daddy!!

[tuffbrk]

Dude - you're either living with her or you're not.

If you're not - I'm sure an attorney would have you provide a copy of your mortgage or rental agreement and proof of monthly payments towards that obligation.

If you are - well then, she can kiss her alimony good bye. That was a risk that she chose to take by having you move in and contribute towards monthly expenses.

good luck!