concernedinmo
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Missouri
My friend has been married for 8 years. She’s left her husband due to what she believes to be an alcoholism and drug (marijuana) problem (he has yet to seek help) on the part of her spouse. The spouse refused to leave the house so she got a very cheap apartment and moved out because she’s completely finished. She works part time, barely enough to cover rent, and is working feverishly to find full-time employment so she can have her own health insurance benefits (although full-time work is scarce these days).
They have two daughters, an 8 year old and a 16 year old (her spouse adopted the 16 year old approximately 7 years ago). My friend goes to the house every day to be with the girls after school and on Tuesday and Thursday mornings my friend goes to the house to get her youngest on the bus for school. They have their 8 year old in a latchkey before school program on Mondays, Wednesday, and Fridays (the days my friend works). They have yet to work out a custody arrangement or visitation schedule. My friend hasn’t been able to file for the divorce yet due to financial reasons and her fear of not having health insurance (because she does not having full-time employment yet).
The spouse’s mother purchased the home for approximately $90,000 for them 8 years ago and the house is only in her spouse’s name. Most of the furniture in the house belongs to my friend who brought it with her into the marriage and her sister gave to her to help furnish the house. They have a $50,000 home equity loan on the house and have credit card debt of approximately $10,000. They purchased a new Honda vehicle in 2008 that the spouse will retain and assume full responsibility for the loan.
I believe the spouse has a 401K and my friend does not. I doubt she's interested in fighting for his 401k, however, I do think it's important for her to know what her rights are. At the request of the spouse, she stopped working full-time shortly after they married (she got pregnant and they decided to marry 6mth later) to stay home and be a full-time mother until their youngest daughter started school. Then she began working part time.
My friend makes mere $10/hour and works 20 hrs/week. She applies for jobs daily looking for full-time work.
Because she’s limited on funds, she feels she’s stuck and cannot get any legal advice on what her rights are related to how the divorce process works, what the costs would be, what she’s entitled to (custody of children, child support, spousal support, any entitlement to 401K, etc) and the particulars.
I believe the spouse makes approximately $40,000-$45,000/year (but I'm not certain).
Is she entitled to spousal support for a limited amount of time? Is she entitled to any of her husband’s 401K? Can the courts order him to cover her on his insurance for a period of time as part of the spousal support?
Can you offer any suggestions on where she should/could go for legal assistance in getting her divorce going/finalized?
Any advice/suggestions would be extremely helpful! Thank you for your help!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
My friend has been married for 8 years. She’s left her husband due to what she believes to be an alcoholism and drug (marijuana) problem (he has yet to seek help) on the part of her spouse. The spouse refused to leave the house so she got a very cheap apartment and moved out because she’s completely finished. She works part time, barely enough to cover rent, and is working feverishly to find full-time employment so she can have her own health insurance benefits (although full-time work is scarce these days).
They have two daughters, an 8 year old and a 16 year old (her spouse adopted the 16 year old approximately 7 years ago). My friend goes to the house every day to be with the girls after school and on Tuesday and Thursday mornings my friend goes to the house to get her youngest on the bus for school. They have their 8 year old in a latchkey before school program on Mondays, Wednesday, and Fridays (the days my friend works). They have yet to work out a custody arrangement or visitation schedule. My friend hasn’t been able to file for the divorce yet due to financial reasons and her fear of not having health insurance (because she does not having full-time employment yet).
The spouse’s mother purchased the home for approximately $90,000 for them 8 years ago and the house is only in her spouse’s name. Most of the furniture in the house belongs to my friend who brought it with her into the marriage and her sister gave to her to help furnish the house. They have a $50,000 home equity loan on the house and have credit card debt of approximately $10,000. They purchased a new Honda vehicle in 2008 that the spouse will retain and assume full responsibility for the loan.
I believe the spouse has a 401K and my friend does not. I doubt she's interested in fighting for his 401k, however, I do think it's important for her to know what her rights are. At the request of the spouse, she stopped working full-time shortly after they married (she got pregnant and they decided to marry 6mth later) to stay home and be a full-time mother until their youngest daughter started school. Then she began working part time.
My friend makes mere $10/hour and works 20 hrs/week. She applies for jobs daily looking for full-time work.
Because she’s limited on funds, she feels she’s stuck and cannot get any legal advice on what her rights are related to how the divorce process works, what the costs would be, what she’s entitled to (custody of children, child support, spousal support, any entitlement to 401K, etc) and the particulars.
I believe the spouse makes approximately $40,000-$45,000/year (but I'm not certain).
Is she entitled to spousal support for a limited amount of time? Is she entitled to any of her husband’s 401K? Can the courts order him to cover her on his insurance for a period of time as part of the spousal support?
Can you offer any suggestions on where she should/could go for legal assistance in getting her divorce going/finalized?
Any advice/suggestions would be extremely helpful! Thank you for your help!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?