child custody

I'm just starting divorce with atty. my wife has been told. her income has been half as much as she CAN be making for 16 years. she works at home on computer. finances are a mess.she has no $$ for atty, and no friends to consult with. I am seeking custody, home, with no spousal maint. is this unrealistic? she will not try to improve her financial picture, and has stated she hasn't and will not love me again....for the last 10 years.

This is way to general of a question. There are too many ins and outs in a custody hearing. The only point you've brought up that can be commented on goes in your wife's favor, i.e. she works at home.

hm