CS MUST go thru court?

What is the name of your state? FL
Is it the norm for the court to order CS sent to them first (court) then relayed to my ex? My wife & I agree it would be best not having this hanging over ones shoulders and handle it between ourselves.

Thanks in advance

[bulldogg70]

You can make arrangements on your own, which I have, but actually going through the system is alot better. It comes out of your paycheck and is not a burden. I liked it because there is no confusion and it reduces mess.

Funny, isn't it, hearing a person say its better to use the system.

So it's usually optional??

[tigger22472]

It can be depending on the judge sometimes. HOWEVER!!!!! As stated it is NOT recommended. Not only is it garnished and you never see it but there is an accurate record of it.. there is NEVER a chance of he said she said... this is why some states require it go through their system and in reality it is best!

[Gracie3787]

Originally Posted by busker

What is the name of your state? FL
Is it the norm for the court to order CS sent to them first (court) then relayed to my ex? My wife & I agree it would be best not having this hanging over ones shoulders and handle it between ourselves.

Thanks in advance

If the court order states that payments are to be made to the court clerk's office:

By Florida law: YOU WILL NOT RECIEVE CREDIT FOR PAYMENTS MADE DIRECTLY TO EX!

YOU WILL ACCRUE AN ARREARAGE, THAT, AGAIN, BY FLORIDA LAW; CANNOT AND WILL NOT BE ADJUSTED FOR PAYMENTS MADE DIRECTLY TO EX!!

I know it is aggravating to have the court involved all the time, but it really is a form of protection for the NCP.
However, you need to check with clerk's office about once a month, just to make sure that they are up to date and accurate on payment credits.