vivacious vixen
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio.
I am new to posting anything on a forum but I consider my situation where no one wants to get involved except my attorney, of course.
I was married to someone for 11 years. He had paid $2,500 in a support alimony obligation where it was through a dissolution. He is a CPA and always made money working extra at tax season. I held a job for 13 years we were together but had one job for 12 years.
Is there any resitution because I helped him pay the alimony for six years of our relationship?
I was laid off recently.
I had late stage 3 uterine cancer and chemo in 2005. I had been in therapy before and after the cancer. He went with me a total of 4 times in 12 years. I have physical ailments from the chemo and now the pressing mental issues put me back at square one.
I stayed because I trusted him. He did all my family's taxes and we filed joint returns. I cannot tell what his assets are because he handled all the finances and demanded I give my whole pay check for the bills.
He said that if I did not work we would lose the house. my name is on the mortgage also. Turns out I am not working and he is the one with all the income. He wants to send me $600 a month in support while this is happening.
I am in another city from which I lived because my mother is ill and my father is in hospital but needs permanent care. Therefore, their house is going to be sold and I will not have a place to live.
When all this occured, my husband asked me for a divorce. He wanted it settled amicably as before with his first wife: a dissolution but I felt it necessary to tend to my parents. I have been with them for a few weeks now.
My situation does not allow me to go and pack and/or move my things. I have not gotten unemployment as of yet. I applied a few weeks ago. Can I ask that he pay for my moving expense?
He is livid that I got an attorney involved and he had to hire one. What else was I supposed to do. I protected myself immediately but do not know what my next step will be?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I am new to posting anything on a forum but I consider my situation where no one wants to get involved except my attorney, of course.
I was married to someone for 11 years. He had paid $2,500 in a support alimony obligation where it was through a dissolution. He is a CPA and always made money working extra at tax season. I held a job for 13 years we were together but had one job for 12 years.
Is there any resitution because I helped him pay the alimony for six years of our relationship?
I was laid off recently.
I had late stage 3 uterine cancer and chemo in 2005. I had been in therapy before and after the cancer. He went with me a total of 4 times in 12 years. I have physical ailments from the chemo and now the pressing mental issues put me back at square one.
I stayed because I trusted him. He did all my family's taxes and we filed joint returns. I cannot tell what his assets are because he handled all the finances and demanded I give my whole pay check for the bills.
He said that if I did not work we would lose the house. my name is on the mortgage also. Turns out I am not working and he is the one with all the income. He wants to send me $600 a month in support while this is happening.
I am in another city from which I lived because my mother is ill and my father is in hospital but needs permanent care. Therefore, their house is going to be sold and I will not have a place to live.
When all this occured, my husband asked me for a divorce. He wanted it settled amicably as before with his first wife: a dissolution but I felt it necessary to tend to my parents. I have been with them for a few weeks now.
My situation does not allow me to go and pack and/or move my things. I have not gotten unemployment as of yet. I applied a few weeks ago. Can I ask that he pay for my moving expense?
He is livid that I got an attorney involved and he had to hire one. What else was I supposed to do. I protected myself immediately but do not know what my next step will be?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
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