Before I start, this takes place in New Jersey and I hired a lawyer on Friday. The marriage was 18 years and have been divorced for 4 1/2 years.
My x-spouse remarried on 9/18/11. I have pictures of the ceremony from Facebook with my kids in these pictures and the pictures have captions indicating it is a wedding. My divorce settlement only says that I am to pay her permanent alimony. It does not mention anything about the termination of alimony. I called the county probation dept and they say that alimony is to continue as there is nothing in the settlement for them to indicate alimony should end should she remarry. She has not told me or the probation dept that she has remarried. The below statute is listed on a NJ State web site and my lawyer confirmed that this is a valid statute.
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My lawyer believes alimony should be terminated in this instance and is starting the process for me. Of course I guess it was an oversight by myself and my original attorney when the settlement was written to have alimony termination listed.
My question here is what would take precedence? The laws written by the state or what is written in the settlement papers? I would think the state has those laws for a reason and they could not be over ruled as in this instance.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
My x-spouse remarried on 9/18/11. I have pictures of the ceremony from Facebook with my kids in these pictures and the pictures have captions indicating it is a wedding. My divorce settlement only says that I am to pay her permanent alimony. It does not mention anything about the termination of alimony. I called the county probation dept and they say that alimony is to continue as there is nothing in the settlement for them to indicate alimony should end should she remarry. She has not told me or the probation dept that she has remarried. The below statute is listed on a NJ State web site and my lawyer confirmed that this is a valid statute.
Link to the above quote: ftp://www.njleg.state.nj.us/19981999/PL99/199_.HTM2. N.J.S.2A:34-25 is amended to read as follows:
Termination of alimony.
2A:34-25. If after the judgment of divorce a former spouse shall remarry, permanent and limited duration alimony shall terminate as of the date of remarriage except that any arrearages that have accrued prior to the date of remarriage shall not be vacated or annulled. A former spouse who remarries shall promptly so inform the spouse paying permanent or limited duration alimony as well as the collecting agency, if any. The court may order such alimony recipient who fails to comply with the notification provision of this act to pay any reasonable attorney fees and court costs incurred by the recipient's former spouse as a result of such non-compliance. The remarriage of a former spouse receiving rehabilitative or reimbursement alimony shall not be cause for termination of such alimony by the court unless the court finds that the circumstances upon which the award was based have not occurred or unless the payer spouse demonstrates an agreement or good cause to the contrary.
Alimony shall terminate upon the death of the payer spouse, except that any arrearages that have accrued prior to the date of the payer spouse's death shall not be vacated or annulled.
Nothing in this act shall be construed to prohibit a court from ordering either spouse to maintain life insurance for the protection of the former spouse or the children of the marriage in the event of the payer spouse's death.
(cf: P.L.1997, c.301, s.1)
3. This act shall take effect immediately.
Sorry you have to copy and paste the URL.
My lawyer believes alimony should be terminated in this instance and is starting the process for me. Of course I guess it was an oversight by myself and my original attorney when the settlement was written to have alimony termination listed.
My question here is what would take precedence? The laws written by the state or what is written in the settlement papers? I would think the state has those laws for a reason and they could not be over ruled as in this instance.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?