I live in Colorado, and I have been ordered to pay $1800 per month in maintenance and $330 per month in child support to my ex-wife.
However, she has recently indicated that she might be moving out of state without the child (i.e. leaving me with the child). While I don't have any issue with taking on the additional parenting responsibilities that this would entail, there is no way that I can financially support and take care of my 4-year-old child, while still paying my ex-wife maintenance and child support. I'm afraid that if she doesn't give me sufficient advance notice of this decision, I may not be able to take care of my child until the matter can be taken before a court. What is the quickest way to get some relief on maintenance and child support payments if my ex-wife relocates from the state for good and leaves me with the child?
As a side note, our child is autistic, and part of me ex's argument before the arbitrator was that she had to be a stay-at-home full-time mom to take care of our child. Thus she was awarded $1800 monthly maintenance. In addition, the $330 in child support was based on a 60/40 parenting time split, with me having our child 40% of the time. But now she's talking about leaving the state, and leaving me to care full time for our autistic child.
Finally, I would like to gain full custody of our child if she leaves the state. Would I need to hire a CFI, or because she left the state and the child, would this be a fairly simple matter before a judge?
Thanks in advance for the help.
However, she has recently indicated that she might be moving out of state without the child (i.e. leaving me with the child). While I don't have any issue with taking on the additional parenting responsibilities that this would entail, there is no way that I can financially support and take care of my 4-year-old child, while still paying my ex-wife maintenance and child support. I'm afraid that if she doesn't give me sufficient advance notice of this decision, I may not be able to take care of my child until the matter can be taken before a court. What is the quickest way to get some relief on maintenance and child support payments if my ex-wife relocates from the state for good and leaves me with the child?
As a side note, our child is autistic, and part of me ex's argument before the arbitrator was that she had to be a stay-at-home full-time mom to take care of our child. Thus she was awarded $1800 monthly maintenance. In addition, the $330 in child support was based on a 60/40 parenting time split, with me having our child 40% of the time. But now she's talking about leaving the state, and leaving me to care full time for our autistic child.
Finally, I would like to gain full custody of our child if she leaves the state. Would I need to hire a CFI, or because she left the state and the child, would this be a fairly simple matter before a judge?
Thanks in advance for the help.