My STBX who is an alimony hopeful has said that he can't wait to receive monthly checks from me simply because it keeps me tied to him and that he'll know that I had to think about him while writing the check. Some people just can't move on and have little to no pride.Just curious, how exactly do you KNOW this? Did you ask her?
Thankfully, Im in the corporate world and my company will set up a monthly wire to his bank account if he does get it awarded...