He closed our joint account, and cut me off AND moved in with another girl

[alreadygone25]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California.

I am a 1/2 student. I work 1/2. I have been actively looking for a second job.
I have been married for almsot 5 years. My husband just moved out, closed our joint bank account..(yes, just like that...one day to another) and basically cut me off. I am still under his car and health insurance. Other than that I have been on my own for two months. He moved in with another girl, and I just want to teach him some kind of lesson during the divorce. What can I do so he gets screwed over someway??

Am I eligible for some kind of support once we start the divorce process?
Does the fact that he moved out, and closed our joint bank account play against him? Thank God we do not have children. he works full time, gets a comission check for sales, recieves a check from the military, and another check from the V.A. So I KNOW he receives income from different places...but he keeps telling me he is broke, he needs to save money for himself to pay his new apartment, and new bills, therefore I had to be cut off according to him.

[Hisbabygirl77]

Originally Posted by alreadygone25

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California.

I am a 1/2 student. I work 1/2. I have been actively looking for a second job.
I have been married for almsot 5 years. My husband just moved out, closed our joint bank account..(yes, just like that...one day to another) and basically cut me off. I am still under his car and health insurance. Other than that I have been on my own for two months. He moved in with another girl, and I just want to teach him some kind of lesson during the divorce. What can I do so he gets screwed over someway??

Am I eligible for some kind of support once we start the divorce process?
Does the fact that he moved out, and closed our joint bank account play against him? Thank God we do not have children. he works full time, gets a comission check for sales, recieves a check from the military, and another check from the V.A. So I KNOW he receives income from different places...but he keeps telling me he is broke, he needs to save money for himself to pay his new apartment, and new bills, therefore I had to be cut off according to him.

You already have a thread with the same things basically asked. If you have any new questions please post it on the same thread. You need to delete this one please.

[alreadygone25]

I am sorry, I was new to the site, and I just found today a more specific forum..regarding an alimony question, in that case I will delete the other one. I apologize.

[Hisbabygirl77]

Originally Posted by alreadygone25

I am sorry, I was new to the site, and I just found today a more specific forum..regarding an alimony question, in that case I will delete the other one. I apologize.

Listen, five years is relatively short marriage, You are already working so you can obviously get employment and havent been "out of the employment loop" for a decent amount of time. You have no children. So the best I'm thinking you can hope for is what you deserve half of marital property.

Ok, It sucks hes a jerk. He cheated and it hurts. But your bitterness doesnt hurt him he could care less it only hurts you. Your lucky because there are no children to suffer from this. You can move on and have a clean break from him. Life isnt fair people hurt us. Move on and find better. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. Your attitude of how can you stick it to him makes you look immature and pathetic. Do you want that? NO! Prove you are a strong woman who can over come this. Prove to him that your better without him. That you can succeed and he lost a great thing. That is the best revenge.