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Old 04-18-2007, 05:12 PM
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husbsnd thinks he is judge

What is thWhat is the name of your state? I am in Maryland....
Iwas divorced in 2000 with 60/40 custody of my 7 year old daughter..child support of 550.00 and 350.00 alimony per month.. that changed when i was charged of DUI in 2001..husband to me to court and won the case.. we now have 50/50 custody and my child support has dramaticly been lowered to 50.00 per momnth but the alimony stayed the same...350.00 per month..we have an unusal custody agreement we each get her every other week for a week at a time...that has been an ok thing for 6 years...I have gave up every thing for my daughter for 4 years not even a DATE..or a night out to be there for her and to give her good morrels and a good outlook on life, to be the best mother i could be.
the problem started when she turned 13 yrs.old she thinks she is the boss and does not have to listen to me because her father does not..and when i repremand her for things she has done wrong she calls her dad and he comes to my house and picks her up without my consent or even talking to me.. he has come inside my house 2 times without my knowledge..to take her to his house when it was my week.....He does not stay in communication with me over her well being..or any thing .He even gave her T.B and did not tell me..His mother did..(SHE IS A PROBLEM) he stays away at work sometimes for days and leaves her home by her self rather than let me have her..or even tell me he is away...he has no controll over her he GIVES her what she wants not what she needs (guidence) now he has decided not to pay me the 400.00 per month the COURT ordered
because my daughter needed braces and he decided to take 50% from me..without even speaking to me...he also has decided that he wants full custody and will not allow my daughter to visit or stay with me on my weeks....SINCE..february 2007..since then i was laid off from work and my cars engine has blown up...so yes I am confused and need GOOD advice..it looks as tho i will have to represent myself in court...is he breaching the custody agreement? #2 the man has not done a lot of things the court ordered in the divorce(all monetary) and i did not go after him he is about 3,000.00 behind in child support.....I have not gone after that either...he was supposed to sell his stocks and split the money with me he did not do that ,he was supposed to sell our boat and trailer and split the money he did not do that either,increase of 108.50 per month in child support when i did not need child care for her ,he has not done that either
See i have left this man**************..and have never bothered him**************.HELP please



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Old 04-18-2007, 05:21 PM
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What is thWhat is the name of your state? I am in Maryland....
Iwas divorced in 2000 with 60/40 custody of my 7 year old daughter..child support of 550.00 and 350.00 alimony per month.. that changed when i was charged of DUI in 2001..husband to me to court and won the case.. we now have 50/50 custody and my child support has dramaticly been lowered to 50.00 per momnth but the alimony stayed the same...350.00 per month..we have an unusal custody agreement we each get her every other week for a week at a time...that has been an ok thing for 6 years...I have gave up every thing for my daughter for 4 years not even a DATE..or a night out to be there for her and to give her good morrels and a good outlook on life, to be the best mother i could be.
the problem started when she turned 13 yrs.old she thinks she is the boss and does not have to listen to me because her father does not..and when i repremand her for things she has done wrong she calls her dad and he comes to my house and picks her up without my consent or even talking to me.. he has come inside my house 2 times without my knowledge..to take her to his house when it was my week.....He does not stay in communication with me over her well being..or any thing .He even gave her T.B and did not tell me..His mother did..(SHE IS A PROBLEM) he stays away at work sometimes for days and leaves her home by her self rather than let me have her..or even tell me he is away...he has no controll over her he GIVES her what she wants not what she needs (guidence) now he has decided not to pay me the 400.00 per month the COURT ordered
because my daughter needed braces and he decided to take 50% from me..without even speaking to me...he also has decided that he wants full custody and will not allow my daughter to visit or stay with me on my weeks....SINCE..february 2007..since then i was laid off from work and my cars engine has blown up...so yes I am confused and need GOOD advice..it looks as tho i will have to represent myself in court...is he breaching the custody agreement? #2 the man has not done a lot of things the court ordered in the divorce(all monetary) and i did not go after him he is about 3,000.00 behind in child support.....I have not gone after that either...he was supposed to sell his stocks and split the money with me he did not do that ,he was supposed to sell our boat and trailer and split the money he did not do that either,increase of 108.50 per month in child support when i did not need child care for her ,he has not done that either
See i have left this man**************..and have never bothered him**************.HELP please



in desparte need of helpe name of your state?What is the name of your state?

so file a petition to enforce the court order. If you are not taking action to enforce the court orders, then that is your fault.

and what do you mean he gave her TB what are you talking about?
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:33 PM
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T.B.
tuburculosis he infected my daughter his mother and I knew nothing about it for a month..
he did not even let me know the outcome of the treatment..he has refused communication with me....I need t know if i can get a pro bono lawyer i have no money to defend this court hearing ...if he wins with his "BIG_TIME" lawyer our daughter will suffer...he cannot guide her properly.....her only spoils her gives her every thing she wants not guidence..
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:37 PM
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T.B.
tuburculosis he infected my daughter his mother and I knew nothing about it for a month..
he did not even let me know the outcome of the treatment..he has refused communication with me....I need t know if i can get a pro bono lawyer i have no money to defend this court hearing ...if he wins with his "BIG_TIME" lawyer our daughter will suffer...he cannot guide her properly.....her only spoils her gives her every thing she wants not guidence..
PLEASE.....STOP**************with......the**************ellipses! If you can't bother to punctuate, then why should anyone bother to read your posts?

And WTF "he infected my daughter"???? With TB? How did he do that? Why should his mother know anything, ever?
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:42 PM
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... husbsnd thinks he is judge....

My wife says that all that time.

No big deal.
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:47 PM
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PLEASE.....STOP**************with......the**************ellipses! If you can't bother to punctuate, then why should anyone bother to read your posts?

And WTF "he infected my daughter"???? With TB? How did he do that? Why should his mother know anything, ever?
Silverplum, I do this all the time when posting.....Does it make you angry?...Let me know and I will stop**************Love Bay**************
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:47 PM
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to give her good morrels
Do you also provide her good s h i t a k e s?
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T.B.
tuburculosis he infected my daughter his mother and I knew nothing about it for a month..
he did not even let me know the outcome of the treatment..he has refused communication with me....I need t know if i can get a pro bono lawyer i have no money to defend this court hearing ...if he wins with his "BIG_TIME" lawyer our daughter will suffer...he cannot guide her properly.....her only spoils her gives her every thing she wants not guidence..
your post is very confusing. So he is taking YOU to court for sole custody? and to reduce
the alimony?

I doubt seriously that your ex husband intentionally infected your daughter with a disease. Although granted, you, as her parent should have been informed.
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Silverplum, I do this all the time when posting.....Does it make you angry?...Let me know and I will stop**************Love Bay**************
I do it all the time too, but now I . . . . . . period space period space. I don't know what it is, creative nature? LOL

I must stop though, because Silver doesn't like it. and I like Silver
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:50 PM
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Silverplum, I do this all the time when posting.....Does it make you angry?...Let me know and I will stop**************Love Bay**************
YOU'RE not asking for help! YOU'RE not asking me (and others) to read your post carefully!

Do not stop being Bay. And I will continue to be Crabby. I mean, Silverplum.
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:53 PM
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looking for help only

sorry to the smart asses that im not very computer literiate.. i am only looking for advise not critasisiom MY ex does NOT tell me anything he has breached allmost every thing the judge told him to do he has threatend me verbally he is a very big man 6'4 245lbs
i am 5'2 130lbs he has scared me so much i am afraid of him...if you have a smart ass answer please keep it to yourself..I am reaaly needing help
YES he gave my daughter T.B. and did not tell me he tried to cover it up..he also has been to an alcohol rehab and didnot tell me my daughter did..I need good advice
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your post is very confusing. So he is taking YOU to court for sole custody? and to reduce
the alimony?

I doubt seriously that your ex husband intentionally infected your daughter with a disease. Although granted, you, as her parent should have been informed.
People can be exposed and pass it on before they know they have it.
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Old 04-18-2007, 05:56 PM
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sorry to the smart asses that im not very computer literiate.. i am only looking for advise not critasisiom MY ex does NOT tell me anything he has breached allmost every thing the judge told him to do he has threatend me verbally he is a very big man 6'4 245lbs
i am 5'2 130lbs he has scared me so much i am afraid of him...if you have a smart ass answer please keep it to yourself..I am reaaly needing help
YES he gave my daughter T.B. and did not tell me he tried to cover it up..he also has been to an alcohol rehab and didnot tell me my daughter did..I need good advice
My best advice to you is this: Get an attorney. You do not express yourself well. If you go into court and tell the judge what you have told us, you will find yourself on the wrong end of a psych evaluation.
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sorry to the smart asses that im not very computer literiate.. i am only looking for advise not critasisiom MY ex does NOT tell me anything he has breached allmost every thing the judge told him to do he has threatend me verbally he is a very big man 6'4 245lbs
i am 5'2 130lbs he has scared me so much i am afraid of him...if you have a smart ass answer please keep it to yourself..I am reaaly needing help
YES he gave my daughter T.B. and did not tell me he tried to cover it up..he also has been to an alcohol rehab and didnot tell me my daughter did..I need good advice
seriously, you might think that the answer was mean, but Silverplum just gave you the best advice. You REALLY need an attorney, beg or borrow the funds. Representing yourself, in your case, would be a mistake.
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Old 04-18-2007, 06:04 PM
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sorry to the smart asses that im not very computer literiate.. i am only looking for advise not critasisiom MY ex does NOT tell me anything he has breached allmost every thing the judge told him to do he has threatend me verbally he is a very big man 6'4 245lbs
i am 5'2 130lbs he has scared me so much i am afraid of him...if you have a smart ass answer please keep it to yourself..I am reaaly needing help
YES he gave my daughter T.B. and did not tell me he tried to cover it up..he also has been to an alcohol rehab and didnot tell me my daughter did..I need good advice
Some of the most knowledgeable people on this site are smarta$$es! Are you sure you don't want their opinion?? BTW..I was being a smart ass to Silver! And she was simply asking you to use proper punctuation, which has nothing to do with be computer literate!

If your ex violates the court order hire an attorney and file contempt for each and every time! Also have your attorney file for a modification of the custody and child support order.

Big Big advice...get an attorney!!
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