What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? IL
I recently discovered my husband has been having an affair (5mos or so). We have had difficulties due to his drinking but I hung in there with him, driving him to and from work. By the way, he has been in jail 4 times since due to DUI and he is constantly pauing a lawyer. He has a case coming in 2 weeks and the Judge wants wifey to give her opinion. At this point, I am sure he does not want me there. I am sure I will damage him if I decide to go to court. I can't deal with adultery, so I am seeking a divorce. He makes @ $100,000and I make $30,000. He pays the bills and I just found out that he had not paid mortgage in 30days. I can't afford it. Everything we have we purchased since marriage (5.5 years). 2new cars, boat, classic car, newly built home and of course our DOG(both our baby). NO CHILDREN. He has left the home and I have no ideal how I am going to pay all the bils, especially mortgage. I also found out there was lien on our house $40,000 due to back child support from him. I think I am screwed, anybody have any suggestions? Right now I am in so much pain.
Thanks JL
I recently discovered my husband has been having an affair (5mos or so). We have had difficulties due to his drinking but I hung in there with him, driving him to and from work. By the way, he has been in jail 4 times since due to DUI and he is constantly pauing a lawyer. He has a case coming in 2 weeks and the Judge wants wifey to give her opinion. At this point, I am sure he does not want me there. I am sure I will damage him if I decide to go to court. I can't deal with adultery, so I am seeking a divorce. He makes @ $100,000and I make $30,000. He pays the bills and I just found out that he had not paid mortgage in 30days. I can't afford it. Everything we have we purchased since marriage (5.5 years). 2new cars, boat, classic car, newly built home and of course our DOG(both our baby). NO CHILDREN. He has left the home and I have no ideal how I am going to pay all the bils, especially mortgage. I also found out there was lien on our house $40,000 due to back child support from him. I think I am screwed, anybody have any suggestions? Right now I am in so much pain.
Thanks JL