scorned again
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What is the name of your state? CT
I was divorced in 2001..dissolution if marriage... i was awarded alimony..immediate income withholdings, and i received that for only one year, then the checks stopped.. the state told me that my x-husband wasnt employed there anymore, then the following month or two i got a call from my son that his father was in the hospital.. i was living in NH then, .. and his father was near death from a brain anyuerysm.. so because of the situation i didnt persue the alimony, now he is in good health, and living with his g/f that he cheated on me with, she supports him, medically also and they arent married, and i was supporting myself with two to three part time jobs, from then til now .. and now i am unemployed, and moved back to ct .. so my son could put a roof over my head, and i am trying to find a job, i have no car mine broke down in nh! ... i cant pay any of my bills, ... my question is.. what do i do to have him start paying me something, i found out he is in the usaf reserves, and he told me himself that he wont get a job unless i sign off on the alimony! He has harrassed me with that for years,... i had a 27 year marriage, i raised my two kids on my own , cuz he was never there, and when he was, he was abusive.
I was awarded 250.00 a week, to nothing for 4 years.. I just need a little help to get back on my feet, but i feel he owes me, i have done without for too long by him!
Thanks LianeWhat is the name of your state?
I was divorced in 2001..dissolution if marriage... i was awarded alimony..immediate income withholdings, and i received that for only one year, then the checks stopped.. the state told me that my x-husband wasnt employed there anymore, then the following month or two i got a call from my son that his father was in the hospital.. i was living in NH then, .. and his father was near death from a brain anyuerysm.. so because of the situation i didnt persue the alimony, now he is in good health, and living with his g/f that he cheated on me with, she supports him, medically also and they arent married, and i was supporting myself with two to three part time jobs, from then til now .. and now i am unemployed, and moved back to ct .. so my son could put a roof over my head, and i am trying to find a job, i have no car mine broke down in nh! ... i cant pay any of my bills, ... my question is.. what do i do to have him start paying me something, i found out he is in the usaf reserves, and he told me himself that he wont get a job unless i sign off on the alimony! He has harrassed me with that for years,... i had a 27 year marriage, i raised my two kids on my own , cuz he was never there, and when he was, he was abusive.
I was awarded 250.00 a week, to nothing for 4 years.. I just need a little help to get back on my feet, but i feel he owes me, i have done without for too long by him!
Thanks LianeWhat is the name of your state?