What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
I have been married to a verbally,emotionally, and physically abusive man for 20 years. We have 4 children, only 2 still live at home. I am finally prepared to leave him and seek a divorce. During the course of the marriage my husband has worked sporadically at best and I have provided the sole financial support for the last 5 years. For safety reasons, I may have to leave by simply going to work one day and never going home again. If I do that, would I be guilty of abandoning the children? How will that effect my chances for custody? And should I expect to have to pay alimony, too?
I have been married to a verbally,emotionally, and physically abusive man for 20 years. We have 4 children, only 2 still live at home. I am finally prepared to leave him and seek a divorce. During the course of the marriage my husband has worked sporadically at best and I have provided the sole financial support for the last 5 years. For safety reasons, I may have to leave by simply going to work one day and never going home again. If I do that, would I be guilty of abandoning the children? How will that effect my chances for custody? And should I expect to have to pay alimony, too?