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[poppingscorn]

i am in Virginia and if you get divorce less than 3 months how much would spousal support will be cause she has no house or no job she has nothing so will they make me get her money i only married her because of the baby was about to be born i think i might be able to get an annulment

[VeronicaLodge]

spousal support is unlikely, but expect to pay child support

[poppingscorn]

why would i have to pay child support if i want my son living with me

[LdiJ]

Originally Posted by poppingscorn

why would i have to pay child support if i want my son living with me

Because what you want, may not happen. Clearly she has been the primary caregiver for the child since she is not working, therefore its likely that she would get primary custody.

[poppingscorn]

so that means she has not been supporting him so why would she win like that

[IndyDad1on1]

Originally Posted by poppingscorn

so that means she has not been supporting him so why would she win like that

Truth be told whether she has financially supported the child is not the issue here. Its the bond of the child and mother and whether mother is fit to raise the child.

Just because she is not working doesn't mean she can't and also doesn't mean she doesn't have financial support else where.

Do you have other reasons that would make you think she wouldn't win?

Who is the child currently living with?

[poppingscorn]

will she has mood swings out the butt and its like she make decisions with out thinking them though and that can be harmful to the child. and he is only about to be 2 months. and she drives like a mad woman when she mad i seen her drive off with him just cause she was mad going over the speed bump at least 25-30 mph and she get depress to the point where she wants to die and i don't want her taking my lil eli with her i am scared for the baby. i need my child in my life and she says she want full custody and i don't now what to do i have no money and i am not good with speeches and so why would the judge take me serious if i stumble on a lot of words and right now she will not leave my house she is not on the lease and she says its her house i think she will be trying to kick me out and i am so scare cause she will do anything to see me go from rags to okay to okay to doo doo and i need some help and what can i do my life is going down the tube she hates me with a passion and she wants to hurt me if i can et some evidence about her lil treats i can beat this CASE

[Ohiogal]

will she has mood swings out the butt and its like she make decisions with out thinking them though and that can be harmful to the child.

That is YOUR opinion. What evidence do you have? Did she have mood swings BEFORE you decided she was fit to have a chlid with?

and he is only about to be 2 months.

And you have left him alone with her during that two month period?

and she drives like a mad woman when she mad i seen her drive off with him just cause she was mad going over the speed bump at least 25-30 mph

And you have allowed her to take the child?

and she get depress to the point where she wants to die and i don't want her taking my lil eli with her i am scared for the baby.

See now Kellie this is where you just screwed up. You really need a more original story. Try try and try some more...

i need my child in my life and she says she want full custody and i don't now what to do i have no money and i am not good with speeches and so why would the judge take me serious if i stumble on a lot of words and right now she will not leave my house she is not on the lease and she says its her house i think she will be trying to kick me out and i am so scare cause she will do anything to see me go from rags to okay to okay to doo doo and i need some help and what can i do my life is going down the tube she hates me with a passion and she wants to hurt me if i can et some evidence about her lil treats i can beat this CASE

Nope. YOu cannot beat this case or any other. YOu really need to grow up and get that psychological evaluation. Maybe then you will get the help you need.