currently I'm paying spousal support off my unemployment in PA, no kids are involved and I had a rough time proving the ex's income, my question is when I find a fulltime job and if I do not report it to domestic relations but still keep paying the support ordered amount and if the ex finds out and takes me back in, what is the worst that could happen, I would be only doing this to wait until my 90 days are up to make sure the job is final because I don't have the funds to keep returning to domestics each time