What is the name of your state? Florida
I was married at 26 years old. Before I got married, I took my soon to be husband to all of my doctors to tell him what he might be instore for with marrying a diabetic (since the age of 2). One year after marriage I had to have triple by-pass surgery. Shortly after that I lost a lot of my vision for about 2 years. I then started having mini-strokes called TIA's. In 1990 I had to go on dialysis and then had a kidney/pancreas transplant. I have now been diagnosed with colon cancer.
My soon to be ex feels that I am still capable of working (although I have not been able to work the entire 15 years we have been married). He has offered me $500 a month for the next 4 years to settle out of court. He says that I am being very selfish if I do not take this offer.
Am I being selfish to not accept his offer, or should I go to court and see what the judge has to say?
Thank you in advance for your support.
Lindy
I was married at 26 years old. Before I got married, I took my soon to be husband to all of my doctors to tell him what he might be instore for with marrying a diabetic (since the age of 2). One year after marriage I had to have triple by-pass surgery. Shortly after that I lost a lot of my vision for about 2 years. I then started having mini-strokes called TIA's. In 1990 I had to go on dialysis and then had a kidney/pancreas transplant. I have now been diagnosed with colon cancer.
My soon to be ex feels that I am still capable of working (although I have not been able to work the entire 15 years we have been married). He has offered me $500 a month for the next 4 years to settle out of court. He says that I am being very selfish if I do not take this offer.
Am I being selfish to not accept his offer, or should I go to court and see what the judge has to say?
Thank you in advance for your support.
Lindy