Is There anything I can do....

[bigdad2210]

What is the name of your state? New Jersey

I was married 20 years, Now divorced 2+ years.
My Attorney did not explain what permanent was... And I was so
upset to have to get divorced that I just agreed . The courts didn't
even look at how much money she received from the House,401k & pension.
The panel & Judge gave my ex 375 a week alimony plus I have to pay
child support also. My ex was given a salary of 24,000 which today
she makes about 30 to 35. My salary is about 3 times hers. I beleive that
my wife is gay(always with the same women day/night,Vacations). She wont
come clean..
Since , I agreed with permanent support(I was mislead,confused) is there any way to have this
changed so that I dont have to pay for the rest of my life. She will probably
never get married again....

Any help, Please

[MandyD]

If you need an attorney to tell you what permanent means, you have more problems than just some alimony payments.

[howamidoing]

Originally Posted by bigdad2210

What is the name of your state? New Jersey

I was married 20 years, Now divorced 2+ years.
My Attorney did not explain what permanent was... And I was so
upset to have to get divorced that I just agreed . The courts didn't
even look at how much money she received from the House,401k & pension.
The panel & Judge gave my ex 375 a week alimony plus I have to pay
child support also. My ex was given a salary of 24,000 which today
she makes about 30 to 35. My salary is about 3 times hers. I beleive that
my wife is gay(always with the same women day/night,Vacations). She wont
come clean..
Since , I agreed with permanent support(I was mislead,confused) is there any way to have this
changed so that I dont have to pay for the rest of my life. She will probably
never get married again....

Any help, Please

Main Entry: 1per·ma·nent
Pronunciation: -n&nt
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French, from Latin permanent-, permanens, present participle of permanEre to endure, from per- throughout + manEre to remain -- more at PER-, MANSION
: continuing or enduring without fundamental or marked change : STABLE
synonym see LASTING
- per·ma·nent·ly adverb
- per·ma·nent·ness noun