unjust and unfair spousal support

[lynsue22]

I live in PA but ex moved to AZ after I filed for divorce and she contested it. We were married a total of almost 8yrs but only lived together for not even 2yrs. Everything was filed for here in PA , child support (we have one child) spousal support, and divorce. I was not able to attend the divorce proceedings due to monatary reasons since it was across the country. I never payed the spousal support that was put in the decree now the state of AZ is attaching my wages. . I did not agree to anything in this court order. She was 28yrs old at the time , working and living with her parents so my child was taken care of by her grandmother. I need some advice of what I can do about this. What is the name of your state?AZ

[BelizeBreeze]

You agreed by not showing up.

You have no complaint.

[AHA]

Originally Posted by lynsue22

I live in PA but ex moved to AZ after I filed for divorce and she contested it. We were married a total of almost 8yrs but only lived together for not even 2yrs. Everything was filed for here in PA , child support (we have one child) spousal support, and divorce. I was not able to attend the divorce proceedings due to monatary reasons since it was across the country. I never payed the spousal support that was put in the decree now the state of AZ is attaching my wages. . I did not agree to anything in this court order. She was 28yrs old at the time , working and living with her parents so my child was taken care of by her grandmother. I need some advice of what I can do about this. What is the name of your state?AZ

You don't have to "agree" to paying. A judge said you have to pay, so that's what's happening.