what factors court considers in alimony

[lilyjohn]

What is the name of your state? NJ
Length of marriage-9 yr 4 month
My husband is playing all the dirty trick he can.He stop working taking unemployment
so that he can get alimony from me and layers fees and don't pay child support.He filled divorce in may 2007 and dragging unnecssary
Euitable distribution is happened according to stipulation aggrement of 2005(basically I gave him everything).His cis was almost wrong(except pay) in new divorcee he filled.He tries to escalate my figure up and his figure down.He mentioned my stock which is already finished 2 years back .He didn't mentioned anything about joint stock(which he cashed out).He already put double amount of my pension in his cis.which is not true.
He didn't submit copy of all the docs
My lawyer is thinking that I have money(according to my husband cis) and making crazy bill,altough I took money from my friend and family.My husband took 8 years marriage saving (basically I didn't fight for it)
He have completely cashed out all the joint money and taken all my wedding jewelry (both what my parents gave me and what your parents gave me) and he is still hungry for more. Furthermore, I did not take any share of the money from the sale of our house; the amount that he was supposed should to put in my kid's account has not been completely accounted for. I am trying to recover from the physical brutality and the mental abuse that he have put me through all these years. I just want some peace for myself and my kid.
My question is what factors you have to look for alimony .is he going to get alimony.
He is on unemployment and survivng well (as he as money to fight ).Is judge blind in this country ? I am ready to feed my child if he get kid(chances are less as I don't want to give my kid to such abusive and irrosponsible persion) but I can't feed this man at any cost who still harassing meWhat is the name of your state?

[Bali Hai]

Originally Posted by lilyjohn

What is the name of your state? NJ
Length of marriage-9 yr 4 month
My husband is playing all the dirty trick he can.He stop working taking unemployment
so that he can get alimony from me and layers fees and don't pay child support.He filled divorce in may 2007 and dragging unnecssary
Euitable distribution is happened according to stipulation aggrement of 2005(basically I gave him everything).His cis was almost wrong(except pay) in new divorcee he filled.He tries to escalate my figure up and his figure down.He mentioned my stock which is already finished 2 years back .He didn't mentioned anything about joint stock(which he cashed out).He already put double amount of my pension in his cis.which is not true.
He didn't submit copy of all the docs
My lawyer is thinking that I have money(according to my husband cis) and making crazy bill,altough I took money from my friend and family.My husband took 8 years marriage saving (basically I didn't fight for it)
He have completely cashed out all the joint money and taken all my wedding jewelry (both what my parents gave me and what your parents gave me) and he is still hungry for more. Furthermore, I did not take any share of the money from the sale of our house; the amount that he was supposed should to put in my kid's account has not been completely accounted for. I am trying to recover from the physical brutality and the mental abuse that he have put me through all these years. I just want some peace for myself and my kid.
My question is what factors you have to look for alimony .is he going to get alimony.
He is on unemployment and survivng well (as he as money to fight ).Is judge blind in this country ? I am ready to feed my child if he get kid(chances are less as I don't want to give my kid to such abusive and irrosponsible persion) but I can't feed this man at any cost who still harassing meWhat is the name of your state?

Double post.

[lilyjohn]

sorry but no body answered.Anyway you hate woman I can't expect reply from you.

[Bali Hai]

Originally Posted by lilyjohn

sorry but no body answered.Anyway you hate woman I can't expect reply from you.

Still a double post and I don't hate women, I just hold them to the same standards and expectations that the courts hold men to.

I know you women are used to (spoiled) getting all the breaks, but you won't get any from me!!

[VeronicaLodge]

Originally Posted by lilyjohn

sorry but no body answered.Anyway you hate woman I can't expect reply from you.

omg, im sorry bali, but this made me laugh really hard!

[Bali Hai]

Originally Posted by VeronicaLodge

omg, im sorry bali, but this made me laugh really hard!

The world is already over-populated with jokers, so do us all a favor and put a dime between your knees and KEEP it there!!!

[VeronicaLodge]

kisses bali