I was married for 1 1/2 years. When i told my wife that i wanted a divorce, she stated she was pregnant. We had been living apart at the time of conception. She deceided to have an abortion and i drove her to the procedure. Now we are divorcing and she is sueing me for alimony. I have recently confirmed that i have a very low sperm count. We used no contraception during the marriage and crazy she gets preg while we are apart. How can i prove infidelity to defend my claims against paying alimony?
Her pregnancy (whether real or not) or infidelity may have nothing to do with whether you'll pay alimony or not - it depends on the state. However, it is unlikely that you'll be paying alimony for such a short marriage, anyway in most states.
Oh, and btw, a low sperm count doesn't mean she can't get pregnant. It only takes one.
Please answer the following questions if you want help:
- What state do you live it?
- What is your approximate income?
- What is her approximate income?
- If she is not working now, what was her income before you got married?