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05-04-2007, 12:51 PM
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What is the name of your state? FL
My wife just served me with my divorce papers, in them she is asking for child support,alimony,our home and legal fees paid to her  . first off i have been supporting my child since day one that i left home, beside the fact that we have good communication. second i only make approx 1,900 a month avg sometimes less before taxes and she works for a beauty salon where she gets paid a salary part check and part cash by the ownwer who happens to be her relative plus lets not say the tips she makes which she falis to claim to the irs. can she still hit me for all this ????? what are my chance?? what should i do??What is the name of your state? |
05-04-2007, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr Rightway  What is the name of your state? FL
My wife just served me with my divorce papers, in them she is asking for child support,alimony,our home and legal fees paid to her . first off i have been supporting my child since day one that i left home, beside the fact that we have good communication. second i only make approx 1,900 a month avg sometimes less before taxes and she works for a beauty salon where she gets paid a salary part check and part cash by the ownwer who happens to be her relative plus lets not say the tips she makes which she falis to claim to the irs. can she still hit me for all this ????? what are my chance?? what should i do??What is the name of your state? | **A: the anwer is yes she can. Of course you need to fight it. |
05-04-2007, 01:02 PM
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| | | How long have you been married? When was the house acquired? |
05-04-2007, 01:36 PM
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we were married for 19 yrs and aquired the house 9 yrs ago. all iam asking is for her to stay using the house because my son is still there with her until he reaches age and then buy me out if she wishes to keep the house. |
05-04-2007, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr Rightway we were married for 19 yrs and aquired the house 9 yrs ago. all iam asking is for her to stay using the house because my son is still there with her until he reaches age and then buy me out if she wishes to keep the house. | actually she should buy you out now so that your credit is not tied up -- you would be risking your credit for far too long if you wait.
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Parents should remember three things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex (or soon to be ex) & when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death parts you & how you treat your children determines what type of nursing home you end up in.
Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice or forming an attorney/client relationship. The devil is in the details after all.
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05-04-2007, 11:04 PM
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well iam in the process of hiring an attorney ,any advice as to what to look for and what to ask ?? also how can i pay the fees? can i also ask my ex to pay for my fees as well since i know she makes more income than me..?? can i say that she makes cash money unreported? will this affect her?? |
05-05-2007, 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr Rightway well iam in the process of hiring an attorney ,any advice as to what to look for and what to ask ?? also how can i pay the fees? can i also ask my ex to pay for my fees as well since i know she makes more income than me..?? can i say that she makes cash money unreported? will this affect her?? | you can say whatever you want. Now prove it. |
05-05-2007, 10:05 AM
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| | | And be prepared that you knowing about her unreported cash could bite you if you filed joint tax returns.
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Parents should remember three things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex (or soon to be ex) & when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death parts you & how you treat your children determines what type of nursing home you end up in.
Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice or forming an attorney/client relationship. The devil is in the details after all.
Licensed to practice law in Ohio and a Guardian Ad Litem for children
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05-05-2007, 07:08 PM
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so that you know i just found out about her little cash money scam , she lied to me about her income because i only went by her w-2 she always said that she barely made any cash or tips. which is a lie, one of her co-worker metion it to me that she is the top money maker at her job and it happend to be that the accountant that they use i know him so if i have to i will have the court subpeona them as well. also i spoke to the attorney and was advised that she can ask for the world but the chances of judge awarding her the house,alimony and legal fees paid are slim to none  in my case**************.thats why i am upset that we can't settle this without attorney's involved .. WOMEN |
05-05-2007, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr Rightway so that you know i just found out about her little cash money scam , she lied to me about her income because i only went by her w-2 she always said that she barely made any cash or tips. which is a lie, one of her co-worker metion it to me that she is the top money maker at her job and it happend to be that the accountant that they use i know him so if i have to i will have the court subpeona them as well. also i spoke to the attorney and was advised that she can ask for the world but the chances of judge awarding her the house,alimony and legal fees paid are slim to none in my case**************.thats why i am upset that we can't settle this without attorney's involved .. WOMEN | uh huh, yeah right, it just seemed like that money she was earning while you were married just went farther than any money you had ever seen before  . give it a break. MEN |
05-06-2007, 12:49 AM
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Why can anyone here on this blog give me straight answers, i feel like no one has the knowledge to advice properly, everyone here seems to advise in a i guess situation or in a joking way which is offensive in a siyuation like this and not with real facts, what good is this site if all i get is answers that my child can give me . |
05-06-2007, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr Rightway Why can anyone here on this blog give me straight answers, i feel like no one has the knowledge to advice properly, everyone here seems to advise in a i guess situation or in a joking way which is offensive in a siyuation like this and not with real facts, what good is this site if all i get is answers that my child can give me . |
You have received the answers to your legal questions. Can she ask for all of this? Yes. Will she get it? Possibly. And, you have been warned about several other issues as well.
As for the rest, well perhaps your juvenile use of the expression "WOMEN"
could have something to do with that.
By the way, this isn't a blog, and the word "I " is capitalized. Proper punctuation would probably be a little too much to ask, as would spell check, apparently.
And I could have received that from MY child. |
05-06-2007, 02:41 PM
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Well Fairisfair i did not join this site to be lectured on typing or clerical errors i clearly see i am dealing with incompetent people here, and not real professionals. i also see you all are based on your exp and not on case by case situation. i have a friend that was able to even get child custody even when his ex wife was able and willing to do so she isa very wealthy women with lots of property yet she lost the battle, as for him he is a business onwer and managed to even get alimony form her, something you should think about. i think everyone here are just people with just bad court divorce exp or maybe the guys that are to proud of themself to stand up for thier rights with no attorney to defend them. |
05-06-2007, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr Rightway Why can anyone here on this blog give me straight answers, i feel like no one has the knowledge to advice properly, everyone here seems to advise in a i guess situation or in a joking way which is offensive in a siyuation like this and not with real facts, what good is this site if all i get is answers that my child can give me . | Hiring an attorney is a good start. Arming yourself with knowledge will be a huge help to you and your case even when you do have an attorney. Read up on the laws, you can find them in chapter 61 of the Florida statutes at [url]www.flsenate.gov/STATUTES[/url]. |
05-06-2007, 08:50 PM
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now this is what a call help !! thanks a lot gracie you were great help to me ... | |
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