M
maxwell86
Guest
What is the name of your state? - SC
I'll try to make this brief.
Ex g/f (she is 29) and mother of our infant had filed a complaint of harrassment on me. This was after i had her served for family court - for custody of our son. Its a long story but this is her 3rd son from a different man, and she has had custody battles for all 3. She lost the first since she abandoned her son when he was 1 and his grandmother got custody for 9 years (until Mom got him back on a temp order 3 years ago due to GM's illness). This woman is a scam artist - having babies for support, dumping the father then controlling the father's visitation, lies, deceptions, hard core drug use. It goes on and on. I have never been in trouble with the law, and was duped by her on our relationship, and provided her over $12k last year alone. I became concerned last year after she abruptly ended our relationship and i ran a background check on her. Then i discovered the truth about her. There is so much more..
I had ceased contact with her shortly after i moved from CO to SC to be close to my son and she said that i could not see him anymore (for no reason). I sent formal letters via USPS certified mail requesting to see him so i had proof for the court that i had tried.
Her harrassment said I sent letters to her home, work and Aunt (I did). She also says I delivered one to work (USPS did, not me). She also said i called her after she told me not to (lie, i have cell phoen records). SHe also said i visited her Aunt and asked about her. Her Aunt was caring for a our child and we did talk about her a bit but i didn't go over there after she tld me to get a couirt order to see my son ( i have the email). I also have a phone call recorded when she threatened me saying that she would do something like this. After that night i have had no contact with her.
Anyway, its all so flimsy and obviously retaliation for my family court action. We hope the prosecutor will just drop it.
Is the burden of proof always so low for filing such a complaint?
I'll try to make this brief.
Ex g/f (she is 29) and mother of our infant had filed a complaint of harrassment on me. This was after i had her served for family court - for custody of our son. Its a long story but this is her 3rd son from a different man, and she has had custody battles for all 3. She lost the first since she abandoned her son when he was 1 and his grandmother got custody for 9 years (until Mom got him back on a temp order 3 years ago due to GM's illness). This woman is a scam artist - having babies for support, dumping the father then controlling the father's visitation, lies, deceptions, hard core drug use. It goes on and on. I have never been in trouble with the law, and was duped by her on our relationship, and provided her over $12k last year alone. I became concerned last year after she abruptly ended our relationship and i ran a background check on her. Then i discovered the truth about her. There is so much more..
I had ceased contact with her shortly after i moved from CO to SC to be close to my son and she said that i could not see him anymore (for no reason). I sent formal letters via USPS certified mail requesting to see him so i had proof for the court that i had tried.
Her harrassment said I sent letters to her home, work and Aunt (I did). She also says I delivered one to work (USPS did, not me). She also said i called her after she told me not to (lie, i have cell phoen records). SHe also said i visited her Aunt and asked about her. Her Aunt was caring for a our child and we did talk about her a bit but i didn't go over there after she tld me to get a couirt order to see my son ( i have the email). I also have a phone call recorded when she threatened me saying that she would do something like this. After that night i have had no contact with her.
Anyway, its all so flimsy and obviously retaliation for my family court action. We hope the prosecutor will just drop it.
Is the burden of proof always so low for filing such a complaint?