No, absolutely not. A district judge in one state has absolutely no jurisdiction over a district court case in another state. The judge couldn't do it even if the prosecutor in the other state requested it. Of course all that prosecutor has to do is submit their own motion to dismiss in their own state, regardless of where the Defendant is.
Just because a state is not willing to extradite you that doesn't mean they don't still want to proceed on their case...they can just wait until you go back within their jurisdiction and then get picked up.