I am in TN. I have belonged to an online group for a number of years and made close friends. In the last year and a half one of my friends started talkiing with a young girl. The man (39 yrs old) lived in Ontario Canada, the girl (13 yrs old) lived in Michigan.
I befriended the young girl and got her know her quite well. On multiple occasions she told me that her and the older gentlemen were falling in love with each other over the internet. I warned the young girl not to get involved and to leave him alone. She of course, did not listen to me. She was a social outcast and someone was finally giving her all the attention she could get.
I hadn't spoken to either of them in several months, and the man had dissapeared from the internet about a month ago. I just found out last night, via a news article on the internet that he had been arrested last month for soliciting sex and trying to set up a meeting with her.
I have personal knowledge of their friendship and knew both parties (through the internet) pretty well. (I guess not as well as I should have though.) It breaks my heart that he treated her that way, and I am of course so proud of her for contacting the police.
My question is this - I want to help make sure this man never does anything like this again so I am willing to cooperate with the police. However, I do not have any physical evidence or chat transcripts, just personal testimony. I also do not want to be subpeoned to Canada of course. How can I help the investigators and what pitfalls do I need to be aware of in giving testimony in a situation like this?
I befriended the young girl and got her know her quite well. On multiple occasions she told me that her and the older gentlemen were falling in love with each other over the internet. I warned the young girl not to get involved and to leave him alone. She of course, did not listen to me. She was a social outcast and someone was finally giving her all the attention she could get.
I hadn't spoken to either of them in several months, and the man had dissapeared from the internet about a month ago. I just found out last night, via a news article on the internet that he had been arrested last month for soliciting sex and trying to set up a meeting with her.
I have personal knowledge of their friendship and knew both parties (through the internet) pretty well. (I guess not as well as I should have though.) It breaks my heart that he treated her that way, and I am of course so proud of her for contacting the police.
My question is this - I want to help make sure this man never does anything like this again so I am willing to cooperate with the police. However, I do not have any physical evidence or chat transcripts, just personal testimony. I also do not want to be subpeoned to Canada of course. How can I help the investigators and what pitfalls do I need to be aware of in giving testimony in a situation like this?
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