Help! I'm a bit scared of my hubbys Ex!!!!

[uquillas06]

What is the name of your state? What is the name of your state? NY

My husband has an ex which whom he had a child with but almost 4 years ago he gave up his paternal rights so he has no legal rights to his daughter...it was a decision they all came up with for many different reasons, mainly for health insurance because the little girl is really sick. Anyways they had come to a mutual understanding and my husband was still able to have a relationship with the little girl. To make a long story short things went sour and of course we can no longer do anything legally so we've left them alone for the past 3 years. Lo and behold a few weeks ago the husband the now legit father of the little girl contacts us and tells us hes seperated from her and wants to make amends with us for the babys sake because she keeps asking for her other daddy well the girls mother found out we were talking and is now harassing us to no end. 10-20 phone calls at any given time and nasty messages telling us shes coming over to our house or job...shes asking mutual friends and family members of ours whom she knows to give her our address and stuff. I am really scared that she might try to harm us in anyway because she comes across as very capable of such a thing ...what can i do to make her stop, what if she comes to my home or worst at my job? I'm not contacting her or even answering any of her calls...If the ex hubby contacts us there's nothing she can say about that right?

I apologize in advance if this posting is in the wrong place.

[BL]

Originally Posted by uquillas06

What is the name of your state? What is the name of your state? NY

My husband has an ex which whom he had a child with but almost 4 years ago he gave up his paternal rights so he has no legal rights to his daughter...it was a decision they all came up with for many different reasons, mainly for health insurance because the little girl is really sick. Anyways they had come to a mutual understanding and my husband was still able to have a relationship with the little girl. To make a long story short things went sour and of course we can no longer do anything legally so we've left them alone for the past 3 years. Lo and behold a few weeks ago the husband the now legit father of the little girl contacts us and tells us hes seperated from her and wants to make amends with us for the babys sake because she keeps asking for her other daddy well the girls mother found out we were talking and is now harassing us to no end. 10-20 phone calls at any given time and nasty messages telling us shes coming over to our house or job...shes asking mutual friends and family members of ours whom she knows to give her our address and stuff. I am really scared that she might try to harm us in anyway because she comes across as very capable of such a thing ...what can i do to make her stop, what if she comes to my home or worst at my job? I'm not contacting her or even answering any of her calls...If the ex hubby contacts us there's nothing she can say about that right?

I apologize in advance if this posting is in the wrong place.

You can contact the phone Co. and ask their procedures for filing harassing phone calls .

If she comes to your home or job causing trouble , call the police or have your employer call the police for a trespasser .

She can do nothing if you want to talk to x hubby .