I messed up big time

[glastron7300]

tx

Ok please no bashing. I know my mistakes...

My girlfriend and i got into a fight christmas night. We had both been drinking heavily. Her mom came in and broke the fight up and I was asked to leave. I spent the night outside and her dad gave me a ride to a friends house the next day.

She has bruises on her and I don't have anything to let ya'll know the severity of the fight.

I am on parole for dwi3. Her moms house is my parole address. I doubt if I am welcome back there. Her brother is a sergent for the jail in that county. I don't know if he has heard about the fight or not. I don't know what her parents have said to anybody if anything. My girlfriend and I still talk daily but have obviously seperated. I work in another city. She does not want to see me for a while until I can rebuild her trust.

I have a PO meeting coming up. This will also include a home visit in the near future.

How and what do I do to prevent revocation or find out if there is any type of investigation?

[OldandTired]

Your ONLY hope here is that she hides the bruises and that no one says a word about the fight.

With that being said, I hope she at least tells her brother, the Sergeant, or that her parents take some action against you for beating their daughter. Don't think that the alcohol you were consuming, against your conditions of parole, is a viable excuse for ever laying your hands on a woman.

If you do not tell your P.O. at the next visit, and he/she finds out later that you did this, instead of you getting 1 year in jail, they will most likely file to impose the whole sentence, because number 1, you can't be trusted to follow your conditions of parole, and 2, you can't be trusted anymore not to hide things from your P.O.(this is of course if you don't reveal this beating to your P.O.).

Prepare yourself to get revoked. Take of your personal affairs NOW. Your girlfriend will have no bearing on the decision to revoke you, if she says she doesn't want to do anything about it. The state will take over on those charges for her.

You were given an opportunity of conditional release and you screwed it up. You beat the woman that loves you, that you obviously have no respect for. Good Boy.